I've been in relationships with guys that were less than conventionally attractive, so unless a guy is ugly enough to break a mirror, he gets a chance. All that matters is what *I* find attractive, not Hollywood. So I do look at the personality. However, sometimes there is no sexual chemistry, and that's not something that can be forced. But sexual chemistry really isn't about looks. The guy I had the best chemistry with wasn't much of a looker. And I've had no chemistry with guys with model looks. If there is no intelligence behind the eyes, I'm not interested, no matter how handsome you are.

You also posted in "Being Good Looking" and stated that you are good looking. I'm an average looking guy and have found that good looking women just aren't interested in me. One of the myths is that women don't care about a man's looks, only about his 'personality'. I'm betting that all of the men who have asked you out are also in the good looking category. I've found that they are not the ones who are going to care as much as you as a person. Maybe it's conceit about their own good looks or maybe it's something else. I'm sure there are some good looking guys who also have great and caring relationships. Maybe you should try looking at a guy for his personality instead of his looks before you decide to stop dating.