“Sorry Erik! Yes, don't let it change you. There are a lot of shallow people, both genders, but also a lot who are not. I hope you find yours soon.” – Sassafras54

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“ Yep it is fun! Just in the song with the same name: "I'm just an average man with an average life I work from nine to five, hey hell I paid the price (for Eh) All I wanted is to be left alone ... ” – passat1

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“Rather than getting upset with the women and calling them deceptive, perhaps you should get upset with the profile format. I'm looking at a match's profile right now, and nowhere does it say ... ” – ScottK

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“Better to be overly law abiding than have antisocial personality disorder. Good luck.” – nightling

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“Are you close enough to meet readily? If so, I'd say he isn't interested in you, isn't interested in dating at all, has some near-term issue he hopes might be resolved soon, or is a complete novice ... ” – D_Lion

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“Here is the simple truth, sisters: all good ones are taken. I've snatched myself a "good" one on eH - handsome, fit, stable, sense of humor, lives near by, etc etc. Clicked together right away. ... ” – brainsandbeauty

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“ No, there is no definitive way to distinguish a paying member from a non-paying member. At least not initially. But if you send an actual "email communication" and you get an email notification ... ” – KuKu

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