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OK I got one for tonight

Say you and the lovely partner is having da quality thymme...so the lady have reached the destination...some women have said they don't want you to stop....some have said they become very sensitive and they want you to stop. Some even goes as far as not wanting to be touched cause the whole body becomes very sensitive.

So which one is it?

I can go either way I just want to make sure to cater to the lady's needs (and does this classify as being too nice? )
- November 4th, 2009, 10:09 pm
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Keep going... there's more where that came from!
- November 4th, 2009, 10:30 pm
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For me its been all of the above. How fruatrating must that be for the poor dude.
- November 4th, 2009, 11:38 pm
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Definitely keep going after the O, time to return the favour. It gives me as much pleasure to give the guy a good time as it gives me receiving it.
- November 5th, 2009, 12:10 am
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I have found that women are different in this area as are men. Some get real sensitive and don't want you to even move during and shortly after, some are totally drained after, some only need a short 15 min break and can keep going over and over again. I think you just learn to adapt with each other and enjoy every moment.
- November 5th, 2009, 01:36 am
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Oh baby! Keep on goin!
Whats that song?
'Dont stop get it, get it an when ya get it, say oh ahhhhhhh oh ahhhhh!' LOL

There are more O's where that first one came from an plus I wanna make sure that my guy is jus as sassyfied as me.

Who all here have heard of that song "Str0kin" Clarence Carter Ya'll think Clarence Carter! LOL

I so needa gemme some!
- November 5th, 2009, 08:05 am
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tommyboy047 wrote :
I have found that women are different in this area as are men. Some get real sensitive and don't want you to even move during and shortly after, some are totally drained after, some only need a short 15 min break and can keep going over and over again. I think you just learn to adapt with each other and enjoy every moment.
I agree. practice makes perfect! one of the best things about being in a LTR.

anyway, it depends on the O- if i've had a intense one or several in a row the constant attention to the love button can become almost annoying- so we need to do other stuff until I'm ready to go again.

with vaginal or other orgasms there's no over-sensitivity problem IMO.

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don't want you to even move during and shortly after
i think why I like this is after i O there is often an "aftershock" and the guy still being inside even if he's not moving feels good. i think PDS mentioned something like this too.
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- November 5th, 2009, 12:22 pm
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Women must be different about this sort of thing. I have been with women that wanted to keep going well after they had the big O, some tossed me off....and others leaped off of me in a single bound.
- November 5th, 2009, 02:35 pm
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Wonderwoman402 wrote :
Keep going... there's more where that came from!
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- November 5th, 2009, 02:55 pm
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I never had a woman want me to stop when she O'd from va jj sex. In fact the attitude was keep on keepin' on!!

One however, couldn't take any more stimulation if the O was from oral, and we would have to switch to something else for a while. Another was that way with backdoor lovin', and would have to stop and switch after the O. Everyone else wanted me to keep going until I had mine, no matter what we were doing!

Me, like most men are hypersensative after, especially after a big one, and get aftershocks just withdrawing. I have succeeded in producing a two-act play a few times in my life.

A couple of years ago, after my O, I stayed in and still and my GF and I talked and cuddled for a few minutes, until my sensativity went away, and the blood started flowing again. When I started moving again, her eyes got wide, and she exclaimed, "Are you serious?" That's where that quote came from in my profile!
- November 5th, 2009, 04:45 pm
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