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Good article.

- July 7th, 2009, 07:28 pm
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OMG, that woman is very desireable. Her eyes are intense, beautiful long hair, very kissable lips and overall a stunning looker. Great article. Overall jealousy-if she loves you, don't sweat it. Let her be as free as a butterfly cause she will come back to you. Smother her and what fun is that for her or you? I was a jealous guy when younger. My ex-wife cured me of it. If a woman [or man]isn't trustworthy, instead of getting jealous, get out of the relationship.


No one is worth it to ruin your health. Or for you to be controlled by a jealous control freak. That's a big red flag. Normal jealousy, ok. But the overly controlling type can ruin more than just your day. Rather find someone who accepts that you can be just as independent as them. What's more your relationship needs it. No one is happy being stuck inside a trap.


If you love someone, set them free. An old but true saying. I had to learn it the hard way by marrying a highly secretive ex-wife. Trust me, no one is worth that hassle from either end. And if they are going to cheat, nothing you say or do is going to stop them. So find someone who loves you and let them be independent. They will reward you many times over for that.






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- July 10th, 2009, 12:04 am
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- July 10th, 2009, 02:47 pm
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Because some women use this to turn thier man off and then the TRUST issue comes to play. If you have to lie to your spouce then you don't have a relationship. I was married 16 years and never cheated on my wife while in the last year and a half she was cheating on me . Sex wasn't envolved but the trust factor and after I agreed to get a divorce she had her tubes tied for her man then he dumped her and now i'm in debt 150,000 lost my house and for what?

- August 9th, 2009, 06:41 pm
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This article is soooo true. It took me a long time to realize that my estranged and "strange" husband [now separated] would never give up on his un-warrented jealousy. He would not willingly do the things I wanted to do for fun--we would go to a dance with friends and he would sit and drink most of the night. Anytime I asked him to dance he always had some excuse not to.[I need to pee or I'm going to get a drink, etc.] Eventually I started dancing with some other female friends, and having fun, but I'd always hear about it after the fact. He would say that I was "looking for attention" or "flirting" [if you are straight, how can dancing with same-sex friends be flirting?] Basically, I think now that HE should have been more attentive and more pro-active about things. If he thought that I wanted "attention" why not give me the "attention" himself? Then we both would have been happy. Sitting around, watching someone get drunk, and not dancing is boring, and you can do that at home if you wish. It's water under the bridge for us, though. [ i think i went a bit off-track!] Every paragraph had another detail that rang true for me. Too bad it took me so long to realize it.
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im a woman who was been too much in love with a guy who never cared for the love/sacrifices and everything that i had given him,i thought he love me too but i was fooled he is a man who is not satisfied with 1 woman he loves every woman he meets...as of now am looking for a guy who could give me love in return...
- October 1st, 2009, 04:42 am
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My last girlfriend was so jealous that she actually accused me of wanting to sleep with a female clerk at a grocery store because I wouldn't punch her in the face after she flirted with me. I was never unfaithful and never gave her a reason to think otherwise. After I ended the relationship because I couldn't take it anymore, she stalked me for about a year. Very crazy.

- October 2nd, 2009, 03:44 pm
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oh yeah, all the three statements are very true... you hit it on its spot...

- November 18th, 2009, 09:13 pm
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Jealousy is definately one of the traits in a relationship that can cause problems.  On the other hand tho, I know some women who thinks a jealous partner means someone who loves them deeply enough to get jealous.   I do agree on all 3 points tho.

- January 19th, 2010, 02:50 pm
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