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Fit45 wrote :
Why do men claim they re "fit" when by their pictures they are clearly not! I am a personal trainer and have known many bodybuilders so let me tell you 5'11" and 235lbs is not fit unless you are about 4% body fat...(I had one guy describe himself as a slim 235 and 5'11"). Also, why would a guy say he only smokes about once year--then post a picture of himself...smoking!!! I've tried to be as straight-up and honest as I possibly could, but I get tons of matches who clearly have not been...
Well tis true a lie is a lie no mater the gender telling it. And it always creates issues on levels of Honesty, Integrity, and opens the door to trust issues, because what else are they lying about, if there lying about this what about something important, like cheating??.....

Once someone lies to me I have trust issues and although I'm tolerant and may over look somethings it still bothers me that someone I Love would think that little of me to Lie to me.

It reminds me of a little thing my mom use to do when I was young:

Now you know son if you lie you'll create a Spooooooook behind you. ( the little boy turns around and looks .... yep me ) Oh you can't see it hun, but one day it will sneak up on you annnnnnd GET YOU!!!!
- August 14th, 2009, 04:45 pm
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FIT is really different from a personal trainers view to an average Joe or Josephine. I met one woman who was 10 years old and 150 pounds heavier than the picture she posted. Since then I print up the photo and bring it with me to the first meeting. If they are completely different than the picture I ask them about it.
- August 15th, 2009, 05:48 pm
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