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On the opposite end of the spectrum, I am mainly attracted to women older than me. I enjoy their company which I find much more pleasant than the company of 18 and 19 year old girls (and that is what they are).
- July 9th, 2009, 03:27 pm
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I really go for men older than me. It's actually the maturity and life experiences that i'm so keen. However, you can meet 45 who acts like 25, or 25 who thinks like 45 so it's up to you whom to choose...
- July 29th, 2009, 06:14 am
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I'm totally into dating older guys.... and it has nothing to do with money.

I like people for who they are as people, how we click, and not the age they happen to be; nonetheless I find myself more often attracted to older men, and have not been attracted to any younger men thus far. It’s probably because I related better to older people, and find most men my age too immature for my taste.


I relate to more mature men easier

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- August 5th, 2009, 09:54 pm
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I've dated men up to 12 years older than me as well as men up to 2 years younger than me. I'm not looking for a daddy figure, however I do prefer older men (a couple years is good, there is no specific age group/gap) because they tend to know what they want and have it together. I've always been mature for my age and so dating older men tends to work out better for me. I think some of the older men I've dated actually take better care of some of the men younger than them! But then again it all depends on the person...
- October 27th, 2009, 05:43 pm
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i too am atracted to older men, its the maturity and life experiances which atract me, and i find guys my age to be too childish! not that i find ALL men nearer my age to be like this....but most of them have had the mentle age of a 12 year old, and i prefer a guy who is mature but also knows how to have fun, and knows when to tone it down.....but so far i have never got as far as actually dating an older guy, most of them take one look and would much rather have me as a friend then a potential partner!...story of my life!
- November 12th, 2009, 03:24 pm
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I get a lot of flak from my family concerning how I feel about a man's age. While it's not a hard and fast rule of mine, I don't date younger men and prefer men 3 to 9 years older. Unfortunately, they tend to be taken...
- December 13th, 2009, 10:28 am
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I'm good with my age or older. I remember when I was twenty, my mother told me she thought anything over 32 was a bit much. It was a shock at the time, but there is something very nice about men who have already had time to figure out who they are and what they want.
- February 11th, 2010, 05:11 pm
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