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I would not attempt to know why you are single. Everything above and all I have read in your other posts seems quite positive. You present yourself and your ideas very well.

However, what we present about ourselves here is 1) very limited and, 2) very biased. We do not understand the impression we create in others.

Wouldn't it be interesting to KNOW exactly what others thought of us? Would that be disconcerting or threatening for you (generic term)?

In personal conversation, it is said that the vast majority of our communication is non-verbal and often sub-conscious. We may "carry past disappointments on our shirt sleeve" for example -- and/or signal unavailability by "barrier postures" such a crossed arms or withdrawn stance or turning away slightly or looking disinterested.

Some of our characteristics that might not occur to us as "turn-offs" for potential mates might, in reality, loom very large to them. For instance, a woman may think that bubbling conversations about her grandchildren or her pets will enthrall others (not saying that anyone in particular does this). However, that might well end or seriously damage any interest a specific man might have had.

Likewise, talking about her religious beliefs might seem very appropriate – but could drive a wedge between her and the vast majority of men who do not share exactly those beliefs. With tens of thousands of different major religions, denominations, sects, cults – and growing numbers of non-believers, most probably do not have identical worship practices or beliefs.

An emphasis on personal appearance or beauty might seem to be very positive; however, it if appears to be over-emphasized it could be a real turn-off. Fancy hairdos and expensive nails may produce the opposite of expected response.

Again, I am NOT attempting to diagnose anyone's personal situation – but am speaking in general terms as I see things.