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Emme wrote :

Whoever said this is a christian dating site???? I've never heard that. I am most decidedly NOT christian and would never have signed up for a christian dating site. There may be christians on here as there are christians on every dating site, but please don't project your beliefs onto the rest of us. Not all of us share your beliefs about relationships or sex. I for one have no problem with sex outside of marriage, and think this is a c ompletely acceptable, and interesting, thread for this site.


As for me, I have to say my three c's for great sex are likely unprintable. They are slang names for body parts, except for one female body part which has the letter C as the first letter in its clinical name. :-)
I agree wholeheartedly. I mean in case you didn't notice when you first signed up Christianity was not the only option for the question 'what is your religious beliefs?' and you were also asked if you were comfortable with pre-marital sex. Perhaps if you're not you should ask EH for a refund, if it is so unacceptable to you or if you feel you were misled.
- March 17th, 2009, 01:45 pm
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DC Lady wrote :

My first eHarmony date last week resulted in my shy guy indicating he was ready for sexual intimacy on the first night. Wow. He was not as shy as I thought and I was not as carefree as he thought. There should be a special commentunder the close communication button for his kind.
This is known as the Paul Revere close.


What did Paul Revere say at the end of his famous ride?


"Whoa Boy!"
- March 17th, 2009, 05:13 pm
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vapsman88 wrote :

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Women seem to forget the most important thing....starts with C...ends with K....


Cork?
Cluck?
- March 17th, 2009, 05:14 pm
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mynature wrote :

I am not sure where we stand my friend and I. I gave myself to him after the first date and now I wonder if that was a mistake. Can someone give me pros and cons about this. I am not sure what will become of this relationship and how do I tell him that i think it was a mistake and still keep him. We discussed amongst each other and he said that we are both adults and knew what we were doing and it did not change how he felt about me.
I say don't worry about it.


- March 17th, 2009, 05:16 pm
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i was expecting one of those "C's" to be Cunninglingus...
As did I.
- March 17th, 2009, 05:18 pm
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I need to find great sex...
You're cute - why are you having trouble?
- March 17th, 2009, 05:19 pm
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I enjoyed this article and I agree, communication is key!
- October 28th, 2009, 04:00 pm
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When you say communication; you mean, "What do you want for breakfast?" or "WOW you were great!" then I'm okay with that. ha ha ha ha. Actually the best thing i ever heard during sex was from a Latina who cried out, "AHYY PAPI... AHHY PAPI..." pronounced (eye Papi) it means basically that I've doing a great job. Seriously though I think it is great when a woman says what she wants, and what I need to do for her to "Get Hers". As far as I'm concerned I will do for my partner what she wants as long as I'm comfortabl with it. Oh Yeah; by the way, I make a gourmet dinner that night and a courmet breakfast in bed the next day.

I had a buddy jokingly say, "What is there to talk about? Are you catchin the bus or should I call a cab!" His wife overheard his advise and their discussing it now!!!
- October 29th, 2009, 05:49 pm
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I'm pretty open in talking about sex with women I'm becoming intimate with. But I actually don't think that directly makes sex better. For me the communication makes us generally quite comfortable with each other, but I don't really think that talking about what we like and don't like has been necessary. That just sort of gets figured out nonverbally as we go along.
- October 29th, 2009, 11:06 pm
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I have found that one of the best ways to get a woman in the mood for making love is to talk to her, and actualy listen to what she has to say. It's not that difficult.

Another way is too cook dinner for her and then do all the cleaning up while she watches, this works like a charm.

There are other ways to get a woman in the mood but I don't think this is the place to discuss them.

Cheers,
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- November 4th, 2009, 11:35 pm
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