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Hello all. I met a girl online and after talking for a few weeks, she asked what I want and I answered, "all I want is a single girl who's looking for a guy for a relationship" and I also said I do not want to get with a ton of women. She said that is too nice. Insane. How is that "too nice"? I'd think it is normal and practical.
- November 19th, 2009, 07:17 pm
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Michael1974 wrote :
Hello all. I met a girl online and after talking for a few weeks, she asked what I want and I answered, "all I want is a single girl who's looking for a guy for a relationship" and I also said I do not want to get with a ton of women. She said that is too nice. Insane. How is that "too nice"? I'd think it is normal and practical.
LOL normal and practical, but that would make it too easy!!

How about instead of thinking you're too nice, she's thinking she's too bad for you?

Dear friend don't try to even understand this issue. If you're still going out, having drinks 'dinner and what not, then it's cool...if she dumped you because of 'too nice'. Don't spend 2.13 second thinking about it.

That's my answer based on my long term research
- November 19th, 2009, 09:28 pm
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Hi there. Thanks for the feedback. Oh, don't worry. She's now in the past, but you are right - many have thought they were too bad for me over the years.
- November 19th, 2009, 09:38 pm
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Hi there. Thanks for the feedback. Oh, don't worry. She's now in the past, but you are right - many have thought they were too bad for me over the years.
She wants a bad boy to inject some drama into her life. I would keep doing what you're doing because it wards off the flaky and
drama-seeking chicks.
- November 19th, 2009, 09:57 pm
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She wants a bad boy to inject some drama into her life. I would keep doing what you're doing because it wards off the flaky and
drama-seeking chicks.
Ha, well, I guess my lot in life and my role on this planet is to ward off these kinds of women. They are all I've met for the past 19 years. After all this time, I must be near the end of the line.
- November 19th, 2009, 10:02 pm
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nah- you are only just beginning.

hold out for a winner. there is no need to settle for someone who believes you are "too nice" whatever that is...
- November 19th, 2009, 10:09 pm
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notyet wrote :
nah- you are only just beginning.

hold out for a winner. there is no need to settle for someone who believes you are "too nice" whatever that is...
Well, by 19 years I meant when I started dating. That was when I was 16 (it lasted a whopping 4 days); I am 35 now.
- November 19th, 2009, 10:21 pm
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Ha, well, I guess my lot in life and my role on this planet is to ward off these kinds of women. They are all I've met for the past 19 years. After all this time, I must be near the end of the line.
LOL. How do you think I feel?
If you wanted to right now, you could settle down with a beautiful woman but you know better. Moi...I'd rather hold out than settle for something less just because I feel the need. Your choice Michael.
- November 19th, 2009, 10:24 pm
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btw is it just me or the OP looks like Val Kilmer in The Saint?
- November 19th, 2009, 10:26 pm
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I was thinking more of a Fabio...
- November 19th, 2009, 10:33 pm
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