“Take some risk and initiative, call him and ask him out instead of waiting for him. Then if the date is going well, just surprise hiim with the kiss in the middle of the date (not at the end). My ... ” – robv_la

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“Update??” – atuconamor

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“Kissing is a complicated question. It feels weird to me to be physical with more than one guy, so I usually end up not kissing anyone who isn't my "favorite", and then they eventually get frustrated ... ” – atuconamor

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“I think the Goldilocks method is breaking into someone's home, eating their food and sleeping in their beds, then being surprised when they come home and growl at you. They shoulda thrown her in ... ” – robv_la

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“ People are only guaranteed to the PURSUIT of happiness. They are not entitled to jack @#$!. In this country you have to EARN the luxuries of life.....well at least it used to be that way. ... ” – dwreese182

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“Ok so the OP was used by a woman. I am sure most guys have been in the same boat, me included. That's why it's easy to recognize when someone else is dealing with it. I think it's important to ... ” – robv_la

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“Yes, Sassafras, I think you hit it on the head. It's a sharing thing and I guess there's no way around it. "But you can be loving and supportive of their experience of this change." I like this ... ” – sodone

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“I don't think all the good ones are taken, but so far all the dates and relationships with people from eH turned out not be as advertised...meaning a good match for me. I think 'good' really is ... ” – robv_la

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