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Dating: Why Age is an Asset

Wed, 18 Nov 09 16:07:44 -0800

Think your accumulating years are working against you? Think again.

Seven Habits of Highly Effective Singles

Tue, 17 Nov 09 15:49:21 -0800

Watch your dating life soar as you incorporate these productive practices of highly successful singles.

Do We Over Think Relationships?

Mon, 16 Nov 09 10:28:39 -0800

Does more knowledge on a subject always lead to better results? What about couples who have been married 50 years, 60 years and more? They came up in a time when the knowledge about healthy relationships was limited. Are they just lucky? What do you think?

L'Oréal's 'Find Your Fall Hair Color' Sweepstakes!

Mon, 09 Nov 09 11:52:56 -0800

Learn what your dream haircolor is and enter for a chance to win a $500 gift card!

The Secret to Dating Success

Mon, 09 Nov 09 11:47:40 -0800

Want to know an often-overlooked secret to dating success? It's all about what you tell yourself ... about yourself!

Shaking The Family Tree

Thu, 05 Nov 09 17:14:29 -0800

To know yourself and your partner, know how your upbringing shaped you.

To Be Interesting, Have Some Interests

Wed, 04 Nov 09 15:06:59 -0800

When someone asks what you like to do, have an attention-grabbing answer!

The Truth and Nothing but the Truth

Mon, 02 Nov 09 16:22:10 -0800

How can you tell if the object of your affection is full of deception? Here's how to see through all of the smoke and mirrors.

Should You Really "Stay Friends" After The Relationship is Over?

Wed, 28 Oct 09 09:36:55 -0700

"We broke up last night, but it was mutual and we're going to remain friends." REALLY? Why do we try to stay friends with an ex and is it ever a good idea?

Romance Without Borders

Tue, 27 Oct 09 14:07:14 -0700

With awareness and sensitivity, a cross-cultural relationship can thrive.

Has Texting Become the Scourge of the Dating World?

Mon, 12 Oct 09 15:53:45 -0700

As communication becomes faster and more ubiquitous is it helping or hurting the world of dating?

The 20 Best Horror Movies of All Time

Mon, 12 Oct 09 10:28:17 -0700

As the air gets chilly and Halloween approaches, we thought we'd share NetFlix's hit list of the best all time horror films. There's no better excuse to stay in, get close and share an adrenaline rush with your favorite person.

Dating Dilemma: Perfect Match - Except for One Not-So-Little Thing!

Mon, 12 Oct 09 10:25:50 -0700

What do you do when your partner seems perfect...except for one single glaring fault?

Purpose-Driven Partners

Wed, 07 Oct 09 13:01:54 -0700

To pursue your passion in life, choose a supportive partner who's ready to cheer you on.

Drama Queens and Crisis Kings

Thu, 01 Oct 09 16:15:33 -0700

Why do some people seem to attract constant chaos in their lives? Find out the various reasons and motivations behind all of the drama.

What Counts as Cheating?

Wed, 30 Sep 09 17:14:04 -0700

When it comes to dating and deceit, the lines are often blurry. Here's how to gain some clarity about cheating.

How to Break Bad Habits

Mon, 28 Sep 09 17:23:53 -0700

Do you have a habit that hinders your chances of finding love? If so, learn how to overcome these unwanted tendencies!

Five Ways Women Sabotage Their Relationships

Wed, 23 Sep 09 12:58:05 -0700

Are you unknowingly sabotaging a potential relationship before it even has a chance to blossom? Find out now!

MyShape Styles a Winner!

Wed, 23 Sep 09 02:51:36 -0700

Meet the winner of our MyShape Wardrobe Makeover -- and see her brand new look!

Avoiding 'The Creep Zone'

Tue, 22 Sep 09 15:54:58 -0700

"Creepy" is one of those words - hard to define but obvious when demonstrated. Here's our list of some typical creepy behavior and ways to avoid ending up in the The Creep Zone.

The Top Ten Movie Love Stories

Tue, 22 Sep 09 08:36:46 -0700

We're counting down our favorite tearjerkers and the most romantic movies of all time! Did your favorite love story make the cut?

Quick Takes on Relationships with Mars/Venus Guru, John Gray

Tue, 22 Sep 09 08:32:04 -0700

Bestselling author and dating expert John Gray answers your relationship questions right here!

Her Biggest Dating Fears

Mon, 21 Sep 09 08:24:30 -0700

Every woman has concerns about forming a new relationship. Here are some of the most common dating fears.

Date-Ready Skin in Five Steps

Tue, 15 Sep 09 16:17:53 -0700

First dates are tough enough without having to worry about a pesky breakout! Learn how to get your skin glowing and ready for that big date with these five tips.

Relationships: The Rekindled Romance

Mon, 14 Sep 09 15:30:48 -0700

Are you pondering the possibility of reconciling with a former partner? If so, here are some steps to maximize your chances at relationship success!

Dating Men: When He Says X... He Means Y

Fri, 11 Sep 09 11:45:40 -0700

When he says he "needs space," what does that really mean? Read on as we explore the difference between what a dating man might say -- and what he actually means!

First Date Blunders

Wed, 09 Sep 09 14:45:53 -0700

Everyone is guilty of first date blunders! Here are some of the most common dating mistakes - and how to make the best out of a bad situation.

Why Manners Matter

Fri, 04 Sep 09 15:44:10 -0700

Making a good impression on your date begins with being polite, respectful and civil. Here are three ways to mind your manners in the dating arena.

eHarmony and the Art of Match Settings: Distance

Thu, 03 Sep 09 11:47:57 -0700

The more matches you receive the more opportunity you have to meet the person you have been looking for! Read on for some tips when it comes to this important eHarmony preference setting.

Looking and Feeling Your Best: Four Exercises That Don't Feel Like Exercise

Tue, 01 Sep 09 08:27:31 -0700

You want to feel better about yourself -- but the thought of jumping on the treadmill makes you cringe. What can you do?

Making Room for Love

Fri, 28 Aug 09 13:24:05 -0700

Is a previous relationship preventing you from finding new love? Learn how to stop letting that ex block you from moving forward with these seven tips.

'Green Flags': What Do You Want in a Partner?

Thu, 27 Aug 09 14:09:10 -0700

Forget about red flags. Find out what members of the Advice community are looking for in their love matches!

Manage Your Dating Past and Enjoy Your Dating Future

Tue, 25 Aug 09 03:18:02 -0700

Exes are supposed to be in the past. However, for more and more people an ex is past, present and future. The key to moving forward with a new relationship is managing past relationships.

5 Reasons Divorced Women Get Married Quicker

Wed, 19 Aug 09 12:04:57 -0700

For all the trauma and heartbreak divorced ladies have been through, they've won hard-fought dating advantages. From Become Your Own Matchmaker by Patti Stanger, star of The Millionaire Matchmaker

How to Make One Fabulous First Impression

Wed, 19 Aug 09 11:33:03 -0700

What is the first thing someone notices about you? How long does it really take to make a first impression? Read on and find out!

Q&A: Dating Advice from John Gray

Mon, 17 Aug 09 16:22:01 -0700

What do you do if your partner is a little too close with his/her family? John Gray has the answer! Read on for this Q&A with the bestselling author.

Are you in a Manipulative or Controlling Relationship?

Thu, 13 Aug 09 11:09:58 -0700

When you're in a relationship that's controlling and demeaning it can be hard to recognize the patterns and work for change. This guide can help you see your relationship in a more objective way.

Dating Tips: 7 Fool-Proof Steps to Approaching a Stranger

Wed, 05 Aug 09 15:23:36 -0700

It takes guts to approach an intriguing stranger! So when someone catches your eye, what do you do?

Relationship Issues: Can We Talk?

Wed, 05 Aug 09 09:40:11 -0700

Removing communication obstacles paves the way for a brilliant relationship.

Relationships: First Comes Love, Then Comes Money

Mon, 03 Aug 09 09:00:22 -0700

Understanding your philosophy of finances can ensure relationship harmony!

Men: What Women Really Think About Your Body

Wed, 29 Jul 09 14:43:24 -0700

Can you get away with those love handles? Read on to find out what is really important to women when it comes to your physical appearance!

Single Dads: Top Ten User Comments

Tue, 28 Jul 09 10:30:14 -0700

The subject of dating and single dads has generated some great insights and comments from the Advice Community. Here are some of our favorites!

The Art of Wooing: Observations and Tips from the Trenches

Mon, 27 Jul 09 12:01:19 -0700

Do you find yourself sheepishly emailing friends to dissect ambiguous interactions with your crush or trying to decipher text messages for a clear sign of interest? Welcome to wooing in the modern age!

A Matter of Faith

Thu, 23 Jul 09 17:14:23 -0700

For many of us, matters of spirituality and religion are extremely important. So how do you handle it if a potential partner has a different set of beliefs?

Finding Love: Why You Shouldn't Give Up

Tue, 21 Jul 09 10:58:57 -0700

Ready to give up on romance? Here are the reasons to hang on to hope.

Men, Is The Dating 'Sweet Spot' Real?

Mon, 20 Jul 09 15:09:04 -0700

Maybe you've heard about the dating "sweet spot". Is it a myth? Is it real?

First Dates: Three Things You Should Never Reveal!

Mon, 20 Jul 09 11:56:43 -0700

If you are in the early stages of a promising relationship, be careful about divulging too much too soon.

Mindy Weiss and The Secret to Finding The Love of Your Life

Sun, 19 Jul 09 15:45:38 -0700

What does Event Planner to the Stars, Mindy Weiss know about meeting a great date? Quite a bit, it turns out.

Using eHarmony: 5 Must Read Tips

Thu, 16 Jul 09 08:47:39 -0700

Like anything worth attaining in life, finding your soul mate requires patience, perseverance, resilience, and is best achieved when approached with a positive attitude.

Confidence, Casualness and Care: The Three C's For Date One

Wed, 15 Jul 09 08:56:47 -0700

First dates are never easy! By following the 3 C's -- you will ensure your potential love match gets a sense of who you really are!

Online Dating: Top 5 Tips for Using eHarmony

Wed, 15 Jul 09 08:33:53 -0700

Transforming your expectations of what eHarmony is and how it works could transform your outlook and your outcome from the service.

Is Dating a Friend a Good Idea?

Tue, 14 Jul 09 12:58:46 -0700

You know them intimately and get on with them brilliantly. But does that mean you should date your friend?

After the Break Up: Beware of the Rapid Rebound

Tue, 14 Jul 09 09:04:10 -0700

When a relationship ends, take a deep breath and some time out before entering the dating scene again.

Who's Your Male Celebrity Soul Mate?

Mon, 13 Jul 09 09:18:20 -0700

Find out who your male celebrity soul mate is in this fun quiz!

Who's Your Female Celebrity Soul Mate?

Mon, 13 Jul 09 09:03:19 -0700

Find out who your female celebrity soul mate is in this fun quiz!

Courage to Say No!

Mon, 13 Jul 09 09:02:39 -0700

An essential ingredient to a life well-lived is our ability to make good choices about how we spend our time. There's an old saying that what we say "No" to is what we say "Yes!" to.

A Wink and a Smile: The Way You Appear is About More Than Your Looks!

Fri, 10 Jul 09 10:54:40 -0700

Finding yourself back in the dating game, perhaps for the first time in many years, can be both exciting and scary. Making a good first impression is key, and here's how.

An eHarmony Success Couple Blog: The Filley Family's Busy Summer

Fri, 10 Jul 09 09:50:05 -0700

In her latest entry, Success Couple blogger Jackie Filley reveals a very busy summer schedule -- and a big change coming soon!

Courage to Break Past Relationship Patterns

Thu, 09 Jul 09 09:59:02 -0700

Learn how to identify and then break past relationship patterns that don't serve you!

The Art of Flirting

Tue, 07 Jul 09 14:55:21 -0700

If we stopped flirting, falling in love, and reproducing we'd soon disappear. But even though nature has endowed us with all the necessary parts we need to save ourselves from extinction, not everyone knows how to use them to their best advantage.

Jealousy: Why it Can Ruin Your Relationship

Tue, 07 Jul 09 10:03:27 -0700

Overbearing jealousy smothers the very thing it aims to preserve. Here are three signs your relationship is headed into this possessive territory.

Courage to Express and Negotiate Your Needs

Mon, 06 Jul 09 09:00:33 -0700

What keeps us from courageously expressing our needs? What gets in our way of negotiating a conflict, issue, or task? Read on for some of the possible reasons why.

What We Can Learn From Toxic Women

Wed, 01 Jul 09 09:11:15 -0700

As any man knows that's stepped into the dating pool more than a couple of times, not all relationships are healthy ones! Look out for these types of toxic women...

Your Body Image Match: It May Be Different than You Think

Tue, 30 Jun 09 15:52:10 -0700

Many women wish that they loved themselves, but bad body image often gets in the way of feeling worthy to date.

How I Became an Action Star and Found the Love of My Life

Tue, 30 Jun 09 10:40:43 -0700

I knew that I wanted to change my life because I was hopelessly single and directionless. But I never imagined that the process of making my boyhood dream a reality would unlock the door to a whole new world and lead me to find the love of my life!

Stereotyping: Top Ten User Comments

Tue, 23 Jun 09 13:08:36 -0700

Stereotyping has been a hot topic of conversation lately on the boards. Here are the ten smartest, most insightful or our just plain favorite comments regarding the subject from you -- the Advice Community.

His Top Five Dating Fears

Fri, 19 Jun 09 17:10:39 -0700

Knowing what men instinctively fear can be a great way to think about your own behavior -- and the effect it may have on your dating life!

A Mars Venus Guide: Dating Do's and Don'ts for Men

Fri, 19 Jun 09 15:06:06 -0700

If you think that dating isn't a perplexing experience for a man, think again. Here's how to make the best impression possible, from best-selling author John Gray.

A Mars Venus Guide: Dating Do's and Don'ts for Women

Thu, 18 Jun 09 16:38:15 -0700

Best-selling relationship advice author John Gray reveals his first date tips for women -- and it's all about compliments, fun and learning the language of Mars!

Secrets of Successful, Long-Lasting Relationships

Tue, 16 Jun 09 12:10:13 -0700

What are the three key principles to healthy and successful relationships? Read on to find out!

4 Good Reasons Why Guys Go 'Poof!'

Mon, 15 Jun 09 13:47:42 -0700

You had an amazing date with him and then "POOF" ... you never hear from him again! Find out four possible reasons behind this baffling behavior.

Improve Your Health, Improve Your Love Life

Wed, 10 Jun 09 13:34:57 -0700

Is there a connection between healthfulness and a more fulfilling love life?

Beginning a New Relationship in the Wake of a Divorce

Mon, 08 Jun 09 15:34:53 -0700

Does your partner's ex linger on in your romantic life? When it comes to recent divorce and former spouses, watch for these red flags.

Courage to Know When a Relationship is Not Right For You

Fri, 05 Jun 09 17:02:53 -0700

There's a nagging feeling of dissatisfaction that won't go away. You've tried to stand back and assess exactly what isn't right in the relationship. Does this sound familiar?

Alec Greven: How to Talk to Girls

Wed, 03 Jun 09 13:55:38 -0700

We talked with 10-year-old author Alec Greven about his bestselling book, How to Talk to Girls, and got his unique perspective on what to look for in a partner!

20 Essential Break Up Movies

Tue, 02 Jun 09 09:05:24 -0700

Going through a breakup? Whether you're looking for escapism or self-assessment, laughs or bitter revenge, these are some of the best movies ever to deal directly with the end of a relationship and the world that awaits.

Blind-Date Dressing: What to Wear and Why When You're Flying Blind

Mon, 01 Jun 09 17:41:56 -0700

Blind dates can be surprising and even nervewracking -- so make sure you feel as comfortable as possible in what you are wearing!

Three Tips to Jumpstart Your Date

Thu, 28 May 09 16:33:04 -0700

How do you get ready for a date -- and how do you get comfortable and make the connection?

Courage to Build Space in Your Relationship

Wed, 27 May 09 13:18:18 -0700

Nothing grows without space and air -- and too often we get into a relationship and it's all or nothing. In truth, building space in our relationship is both a right and responsibility.

Two Simple Rules for Meeting New People

Wed, 27 May 09 12:05:48 -0700

Meeting people has never been easy, but author Nicholas Boothman has two simple rules to immediately increase your chances.

Amp Up Your Attractive Factor

Tue, 26 May 09 14:26:38 -0700

When looking for romance, amp up your attractiveness with an optimistic attitude.

Resurrecting the Girly Girl: The Lost Art of Feminine Wiles

Fri, 22 May 09 14:09:41 -0700

It's time to take the stigma out of going girly. Old-fashioned can be fashionable, and in the perpetual pendulum swing of style and society, even fashion-forward!

Set Stereotypes Aside

Fri, 22 May 09 10:37:26 -0700

Someone once said, "Stereotypes are devices for saving a biased person the trouble of learning." Learn how to start a new relationship with a clean slate of fresh expectations.

Moving On: How to Let Go of Past Relationships

Thu, 21 May 09 16:23:46 -0700

There's no sense staying stuck in the past when a bright future awaits if you are willing to just move forward!

Air New Zealand Announces First Matchmaking Flight!

Tue, 19 May 09 13:33:23 -0700

Have you ever noticed how many attractive guys and girls you see while traveling? Brought to you by our Sponsor, Air New Zealand

Breakup Survival Kit

Mon, 18 May 09 17:52:57 -0700

Someone you care about -- maybe even love -- has just ended your relationship. How do you mend a broken heart? Here's a start.

Deadly Secrets

Thu, 14 May 09 17:36:09 -0700

If there's a secret you dread telling a potential partner, here's what you need to know.

5 Nightmare Trends You Shouldn't Dream of Wearing on a Date!

Tue, 12 May 09 14:29:02 -0700

They are the reemerging trends in the fashion arena you don't want to be caught wearing... think scrunchies and parachute pants!

The Today Show's Janice Lieberman Tells You What the Experts Know About Happy Marriages

Mon, 11 May 09 11:32:20 -0700

The experts--scientists, sociologists, sexologists, divorce lawyers, long-married couples--actually know what it takes to get and stay happily married. The information, though, was either shrouded in academic jargon or had never been written down at all. So I decided to correct the problem...

The Singles Guide to Travel

Mon, 11 May 09 11:20:58 -0700

Dare to embark on a solo adventure -- and be amazed at the people you'll meet and how you will grow from the experience! Brought to you by Air New Zealand

Let's Talk: Breaking Down Barriers and Developing Better Communication

Mon, 11 May 09 09:33:57 -0700

Since communication is really just a matter of talking and listening, it should be simple and straightforward ... yes, it should be!

When the Honeymoon Phase is Over

Fri, 08 May 09 13:29:38 -0700

What happens when that first, most passionate phase of a relationship begins to fade?

The Single Mom's Guide to Dating

Thu, 07 May 09 08:44:21 -0700

Dating, divorce, the ex and your kids: Check out eHarmony's comprehensive guide for single moms reentering the dating scene!

How Do You Deal With Dishonesty in a Relationship?

Tue, 05 May 09 13:44:49 -0700

The best relationships are based on honesty and integrity. So what do you do when you find your partner has been dishonest?

An eHarmony Success Couple Blog: When Joe Met Jenny!

Fri, 01 May 09 07:39:45 -0700

Joe and Jenny Rhea give a his and hers perspective on their first meeting through eHarmony in this first success couples blog!

Who is Your "Type"?

Thu, 30 Apr 09 11:18:32 -0700

It’s a lot easier to know who your "type" isn't than it is to know who is. Here’s how to tell when someone interests you, but you’re just not sure . . .

Dumped! What Happened?

Thu, 30 Apr 09 08:00:38 -0700

How could something so promising for you become so passe for your partner? Here are 6 scenarios that can provide some insight into what happened.

Sacred Standards

Tue, 28 Apr 09 10:24:15 -0700

How do Christians and other morally minded singles succeed at romance in an "anything goes" world?

Are You Dating A Fixer-Upper?

Mon, 27 Apr 09 16:40:26 -0700

There are limits as to how much you should "refurbish" a potential partner.

Wondering Why You Are Still Single? The Answer May Just Be You...

Mon, 27 Apr 09 16:08:37 -0700

Perhaps the real reason you are alone on a Saturday night is because you are in denial. We often think of denial as it pertains to larger issues such as alcohol abuse or mental illness. Yet denial can live in every aspect of our daily lives. There are easy steps to help you realize what you are in denial about, which will lead you to open yourself up to love.

The Today Show's Janice Lieberman: How To Shop For a Husband

Mon, 27 Apr 09 15:34:51 -0700

If you're unhappy in your dating life, even if everything else is going well for you-good health, stable job, wonderful friends-you may find yourself feeling pretty miserable.
I should know. I've been there.

Mariel Hemingway: What I've Learned About Love

Thu, 23 Apr 09 11:22:24 -0700

Actress, Model, Author, and Entrepreneur Mariel Hemingway shares her personal journey to love, growth, and peace.

How to Feel Sexy No Matter What Your Age Is

Thu, 23 Apr 09 10:28:07 -0700

It's easy for women in our society to get the message that their sex appeal is based on youth and beauty. But claiming your right to be sexy isn't about your birth date. It's about your attitude.

The Mini Makeover: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Stepping It Up a Notch

Wed, 22 Apr 09 17:47:34 -0700

Giving your life and your look a little polish is never a bad idea when you're in the dating world.

5 Reasons Why Good Relationships Go Bad

Tue, 21 Apr 09 04:08:06 -0700

Beware of the five things that can sabotage an otherwise promising partnership.

5 Telltale Signs of Great First Dates

Tue, 21 Apr 09 00:01:23 -0700

Nerves aside, getting to know someone new can come with mixed signals, a roller coaster of thoughts and a flurry of emotions. Look for these 5 telltale signs that can indicate that you and your date are well on your way to a second date.

More Than Meets the Eye: How to be Beautiful Without Being Good Looking

Mon, 20 Apr 09 12:44:45 -0700

There is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself and attending to your looks. But remember to spend as much time developing attractive qualities that come from your heart and soul!

Are You Ready For The Big Relationship Leap?

Fri, 17 Apr 09 09:08:46 -0700

How much of your dating life is ruled by fear? Fear of rejection. Fear of wasting time. Fear of a bad relationship. For many, persistent fear can turn the joys of meeting new people into agony. Here's how to kick your fear to the curb.

Seeking Women Who are Right for You

Thu, 16 Apr 09 10:20:46 -0700

Choosing the right partner is one of the most important decisions you'll make but the path to finding that person isn't always as straightforward as you'd hope.

Startup Love: What Starting a Company Reveals About Launching a Romance

Thu, 16 Apr 09 10:08:36 -0700

As someone who teaches innovation and entrepreneurship at Stanford, I know a great deal about what it takes to start a new venture. And, based on the years when I changed my boyfriends like my socks, I now realize that these are the same tools that are required to launch a new relationship.

#1 Surprising Reason Men Said They Chose Their Wife

Wed, 15 Apr 09 14:31:43 -0700

I've spent a great deal of time talking to men about the reasons they chose a particular woman for a long-term relationship. They described to me the moment when they first knew a woman was special and had future-wife potential...

Break the Ice: Creating a First Date Look That Showcases You

Tue, 14 Apr 09 13:31:15 -0700

What you choose to wear on a first date should convey both comfort and confidence. Read more to find out how to break the ice on your date -- before you utter a word!

20 Great Date Movie Comedies

Tue, 14 Apr 09 02:53:18 -0700

Men and women consistently rank "sense of humor" in the top 3 traits they want to share with a mate. What better way to test the water than with a great movie comedy? From "Groundhog Day" to "Annie Hall" we run down the 20 best ways to share your perfect idea of funny.

Dating Issues: Show Me the Money

Mon, 13 Apr 09 17:30:07 -0700

How important is the "money factor" when searching for a partner?

4 Ways to Break Bad Dating Patterns

Mon, 13 Apr 09 16:10:38 -0700

Taking a look at the past can ensure a brighter future. When you identify patterns from previous relationships -- and correct them -- you'll enable the next one to be lasting and fulfilling.

What NOT to say in your "About Me" Profile

Mon, 13 Apr 09 00:01:01 -0700

Posting a photo will get you more clicks on your profile, but the text that goes along with it is just as important. What you reveal about yourself on your profile is crucial for enticing or turning away potential mates. Are you saying the right thing?

Seeking Men Who Are in it for the Long Haul

Fri, 10 Apr 09 00:01:01 -0700

Seeking men?

Read on to learn how to find that long-term partner and what to do once you've found him.

When To Bring 'It' Up: Defining the Relationship

Thu, 09 Apr 09 16:05:10 -0700

You've been dating a few months and may be feeling ready to become "exclusive." How do you broach that subject? Thoughtfully!

Dressing in Your 20s, 30s and 40s: How to Dress Your Age

Thu, 09 Apr 09 00:01:01 -0700

For those who want to embrace modernity with some loyalty to tradition, here are some tips for dressing for your decade in the new millennium!

4 Reasons Women are Attracted to 'Bad Boys'

Wed, 08 Apr 09 11:01:10 -0700

Why is it that many sensible and responsible women are attracted to 'bad boys?' What do otherwise conscientious and even conservative women see in rebels?

Kiss and Tell: What Women and Men Want in a Kiss

Tue, 07 Apr 09 00:01:02 -0700

There's nothing like it. A kiss full of passion and chemistry and promise. But in the end is a kiss just a kiss? Does it have to mean anything? Find out what one study revealed.

What Not to Eat and Drink on a First Date

Tue, 07 Apr 09 00:01:01 -0700

Avoiding embarrassment is probably the number one priority for most people on a first date. So why do so many people do themselves in by reaching for the wrong foods? Check out what shouldn't be on the menu on a first date.

Finding Love: Telling Lust from Love

Mon, 06 Apr 09 13:26:51 -0700

Love is one of life's most intense emotions, and when you are in lust it's easy to think you are feeling love -- but the two are very different!

Does Your Date Think You're a Gold Digger? 5 Things You Should Never Ask

Mon, 06 Apr 09 11:47:26 -0700

“Gold Digger” is a crass label no one wants, but after interviewing 1,000 single men, I discovered it's being applied to women more often than they think (and often unfairly).

Are You Caught in the Comfort Zone Trap? Learning to Embrace Change!

Fri, 03 Apr 09 16:15:17 -0700

Whether we're talking about our career, our dating world, or our personal life, change is necessary if we want to grow and evolve. Here are 6 reasons to embrace change and be willing to move beyond your comfort zone!

5 Reasons People Stay in Bad Relationships

Thu, 02 Apr 09 15:19:49 -0700

No laughter, no joy, constant arguing -- despite the telltale signs -- why do many of us continue to stay in bad relationships? Here are 5 possible reasons why.

Carnie Wilson: What I've Learned About Love

Thu, 02 Apr 09 00:01:01 -0700

The songstress is back -- hosting the Game Show Network's (GSN's) hot new show "The Newlywed Game" April 6. Carnie opens up about love -- and why she's loving her fun new gig!

4 Ways Exercise Can Rev up your Love Life

Wed, 01 Apr 09 00:01:01 -0700

You know that exercise is good for you, but did you know that it has advantages for your love life too? Learn how hitting the gym can improve your relationship.

Dating Mistakes Men Make

Tue, 31 Mar 09 11:17:33 -0700

An honest mistake will usually be forgiven; one that comes from insensitivity or selfishness may not be. Look out for these common dating mistakes men make!

Tom Bergeron: It Was a Dark and Stormy...Date!

Mon, 30 Mar 09 00:01:02 -0700

The 'Dancing with the Stars' host reveals all about his personal dating challenges and brand new project.

Dating Superstitions

Mon, 30 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0700

If you're prone to engaging in superstitious behavior when it comes to your relationship, it could be that you're falling in love! See what Bruce M. Hood has to say about Dating Superstitions.

New Dating Trend: Exit Interviews

Sat, 28 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0700

“I’ve spent the past ten years conducting some very unconventional dating research using a business concept called “exit interviews.” Yup, that’s right: I called up your former dates and asked them what really happened when things didn’t work out.”

Are You Trying Too Hard? 5 Ways to Keep from Overdressing for Your Date

Fri, 27 Mar 09 17:29:06 -0700

Dating may feel like an interview process, but dressing in a power suit might kill the mood!

How To Ask Someone Out On A Date

Fri, 27 Mar 09 15:34:18 -0700

Asking someone out on a date need not be nerve-wracking. The simple truth is that most single people would love to be asked out to coffee or dinner!

How to Get your Sexy Back after a Divorce or Bad Breakup

Fri, 27 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0700

Divorce or breakups can be devastating. Some of us hide, others put on fake smiles -- and many of us get right back in the game without taking time to heal. One important thing you never want to lose during the process is your self-confidence.

First Date Dos and Don'ts: Surefire Style Tips and Fashion Faux Pas

Thu, 26 Mar 09 10:11:34 -0700

Don't wait until the last minute to throw your ensemble together...but do break out a signature piece that shows your personality! Read on for more first date dressing tips!

What we can Learn from our Pets

Wed, 25 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0700

They are the best, most devoted friends a person could ask for: our pets. Sure we love them, but what can we learn from them?

The New Rules of Dating: 4 Ways Dating Has Changed in the Last Five Years

Mon, 23 Mar 09 17:08:58 -0700

Are you finding yourself back in the dating trenches? If so, what follows are four brand spanking new rules of dating!

5 Relationship Red Flags

Mon, 23 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0700

In those beginning stages of love, it's easy to overlook abnormal behavior. Wonder whether you should stick it out or run the other way? Here are five red flags that should signal the end of your relationship.

6 Ways to Make Your Life Better Today

Thu, 19 Mar 09 09:37:36 -0700

Want to be happier? Want to feel better about yourself, and about life in general? Want to do it now? Here are six ways to make your life better today.

Mixing it Up: Jazzing Up Your Next Date with Wine

Thu, 19 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0700

Wine tasting is a great date idea. It's fun, interesting and it gives you something to talk about. Read on for this how-to guide, created especially for wine enthusiasts everywhere!

Dating Friends: Should You Date Your Friends?

Thu, 19 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0700

You know they are good people and you get along with them fantastically. Does that mean you should be more than just friends...but dating friends?

Getting Back Out There in Style: How to Rebound Your Love Life and Your Look

Wed, 18 Mar 09 12:51:33 -0700

How do you move your dating style beyond the rebound phase and into the next chapter of your love life? Let myShape be your guide!

Dating 101: 4 Steps to Safely Getting Close

Wed, 18 Mar 09 10:28:44 -0700

Love at first sight (or inbox message) does exist once in a while! Here are four ways you can feel the magic of something new while keeping your feet firmly planted on the ground.

Finding Love: Getting Over Your Personal Prejudices

Tue, 17 Mar 09 14:44:21 -0700

Does height or income level really matter? We all make assumptions. Right or wrong it's part of being human. But if you're truly looking to find love can you close the door on entire groups of people?

Don't Underestimate the Nice Guy

Tue, 17 Mar 09 09:59:44 -0700

For day-to-day harmony with another person, you can't beat kindness. Find out why the nice guy will prevail in dating and relationships.

Dating Women: 5 Reasons She's Just Not That Into You

Mon, 16 Mar 09 14:00:11 -0700

You had a great couple of first dates, but then nothing. What went wrong? Here are a few reasons why she may not be that into you.

Your Honey and Your Money: 5 Conversations every Couple needs to have about Finances

Mon, 16 Mar 09 11:34:22 -0700

Couples fight about money more than anything else. Here's what you need to talk about before you decide to join forces financially.

Do You Desire to Inspire? 10 Ways to Inspire the People Around You

Mon, 16 Mar 09 09:40:56 -0700

Do you want to positively impact the lives of others? The best thing you can do is to focus on some fundamental "principles of character" -- and here's 10 ways to do just that!

Internet Dating: What Works, What Doesn't

Sat, 14 Mar 09 17:52:55 -0700

Meeting new people and finding the love of your life should be a great experience! Here are a few things to look out for in the land of Internet dating!

6 Signs He May be the Cheating Kind

Fri, 13 Mar 09 15:15:46 -0700

You have your suspicions, but is he really cheating? These 6 signs may clue you into whether or not he's being unfaithful.

7 Ways to Disagree -- Agreeably!

Wed, 11 Mar 09 17:48:00 -0700

In great relationships, people know how to quarrel constructively. Here are seven easy steps for managing those inevitable disagreements.

Lonely? Make More Love in your Life

Wed, 11 Mar 09 16:31:06 -0700

The key to finding love is loving yourself first. See how your self-worth can impact your romantic life and your capacity to love others.

Single Women: 7 Strategies for Meeting Mr. Right

Tue, 10 Mar 09 14:31:09 -0700

While many single women truly enjoy living the single life, others are ready to find Mr. Right and begin a new chapter in the story of their lives! Here are seven tips to lead you in that direction.

Toxic Men: Our Greatest Teachers

Tue, 10 Mar 09 10:03:06 -0700

Some of life's greatest lessons are born from our biggest nightmares. Toxic men can provide just that nightmarish opportunity!

A Quick Emotional Health Checkup

Mon, 09 Mar 09 15:36:26 -0700

Take a quick "exam" to determine the wellbeing of any potential partner!

What Not to Do for Your Profile Photo: 4 Secrets for Looking Fabulous - and Not Fake!

Mon, 09 Mar 09 10:36:15 -0700

In the world of online dating, just like in the real world, a good first impression snags attention, making you stand out.

Dating Style: Casual Cool or Polished Sophisticate?

Thu, 05 Mar 09 15:57:52 -0800

Understanding your personal style can make life easier and help you determine what type of partner you'll be most compatible with. So what style are you?

How to Handle Criticism

Thu, 05 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0800

No one wants to hear that they need to change, but if you're open minded you could wind up changing your life for the better.

5 Hobbies Women Find Sexy

Thu, 05 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0800

If there's any love lesson worth noting, it's that sexiness has little to do with the way a person looks. What's more, passion for a hobby, a love for something outside oneself, is incredibly alluring to the opposite sex.

What Warrants a Second Chance and What Doesn't?

Thu, 05 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0800

Being in a long-term relationship requires that you weather many storms as a couple. If one person is the source of all of your problems, when should you walk in the name of self-protection?

Steve Harvey: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man

Wed, 04 Mar 09 10:27:51 -0800

Steve Harvey sits down with eHarmony to talk about his new book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. In this candid interview, Harvey reveals what men really think about love, relationships and commitment.

5 Tips for Creating a Great First Date

Tue, 03 Mar 09 11:41:19 -0800

Creating a great first date is not rocket science. A little thoughtfulness, confidence, and imagination should do the trick. Here are a few guidelines to help you maximize your chances of success.

3 Things That Turn Men Off To Relationships

Tue, 03 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0800

Don't make it easy for the right man to mistake you as the wrong woman for him, by having him feel like you're trying to rush into a relationship! Brought to you by Christian Carter

Monogamous Love that Sizzles

Mon, 02 Mar 09 10:33:47 -0800

Stop going on movie dates and start communicating with your significant other! In his newest book, The Kosher Sutra, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach tackles marital boredom and how to keep your love life on the front burner.

What an Emotionally Mature Man Looks Like

Mon, 02 Mar 09 00:01:01 -0800

Trying to build a relationship with an emotionally immature guy is like trying to build a house out of cards. Read on for the 5 telltale signs of an emotionally mature man. Brought to you by Christian Carter

Are you Addicted to Drama?

Sat, 28 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

If you love the way you feel when everything is out of control, you're probably addicted to drama. Learn what makes a drama queen and how to avoid (or stop) being one.

New: Get a Relationship Check-Up!

Fri, 27 Feb 09 15:28:40 -0800

How compatible are you and your partner? Take eHarmony Lab's Relationship Check-Up quiz right now for your complete romance prescription!

Twenty Questions to Ask Yourself

Fri, 27 Feb 09 07:51:08 -0800

Let's play 20 questions: Get to know yourself better by contemplating these queries!

The 4 Most Common Dating Mistakes Women Make

Thu, 26 Feb 09 11:49:52 -0800

Blunders happen -- that's life. But some women make mistakes by not thinking ahead and not being aware of what they're doing at the moment. Here are some of the most common ones...

The Benefits of Commitment

Wed, 25 Feb 09 13:53:36 -0800

A big part of finding the love of your life is knowing how to keep the love of your life. Read on for the main challenges that come up during key phases of a relationship -- and how to navigate through them.

Body Shape Basics: Which of the 7 Body Shapes Are You?

Wed, 25 Feb 09 13:47:28 -0800

If you know your shape, you'll never look bad in an outfit again. Here's how to determine what shape you are and what clothes flatter your figure.

The Science Behind a First Kiss

Wed, 25 Feb 09 07:53:10 -0800

It's the end of the date, and he leans in for a kiss. In an instant, your lips meet his, and exciting chemical changes in your brain begin.

Balancing Sexual Passion In A Relationship

Mon, 23 Feb 09 16:18:49 -0800

A relationship can get muddled and off-kilter when a couple allows one aspect (most often, the physical) to get far ahead of the other aspects!

How to Get What you Want without Nagging

Mon, 23 Feb 09 11:01:36 -0800

Are you nagging your partner to death? If so, you could be major strain on your relationship. Learn how to get what you want without being a major nag.

Are you Addicted to Drama?

Mon, 23 Feb 09 11:00:11 -0800

If you love the way you feel when everything is out of control, you're probably addicted to drama. Learn what makes a drama queen and how to avoid (or stop) being one.

Do You Care Too Much What Other People Think?

Fri, 20 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

If you are constantly looking to please other people, you aren't being true to yourself. We have advice for those of you who are trying a little too hard to be liked.

Single, With Children

Thu, 19 Feb 09 15:05:08 -0800

Single parents can have romantic lives, too. Read on for some tips regarding dating with children!

How to Talk to your Mate about their Weight

Wed, 18 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Talking to someone about their weight is the last thing anyone wants to do, but when a person's health is at risk, it's necessary. Here's how to talk to your mate about their weight without crushing their self-esteem.

Ordering the Proper Wine for Your Date: The Expert Weighs In

Mon, 16 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

For even the savviest wine connisseurs, knowing exactly what to order on your date can create confusion or even a little anxiety. Read on for this how-to guide, created especially for wine enthusiasts everywhere.

Make Him See Stars: Red Carpet Romance from Patty Fox, Fashion Coordinator for the Academy Awards

Sat, 14 Feb 09 13:31:55 -0800

Bring a little Hollywood glamour into your dating life with the help of myShape and expert Patty Fox -- who reveals the a-list dish on the impact of style in your relationships!

Introducing: eHarmony's Most Inspirational Couple of 2008!

Fri, 13 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

The results are in! Read all about the amazing love story of Holly and Brett, eHarmony's Most Inspirational Couple of 2008!

Men's Intuition: How Men Read Your Signals

Fri, 13 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

When you’re not saying what you really think, men look to these 3 cues to determine how you feel.

20 Ways to Make Her Fall in Love

Thu, 12 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Woo that special someone in your life with these 20 tips!

Ladies: 4 Ways to Wear the Love on Valentine's Day

Wed, 11 Feb 09 10:43:28 -0800

Whether you've reserved a spot at a Valentine's Day event or you're readying for a recession-inspired picnic in your living room, we're here to help with the stylish side of things! Brought to you by myShape

Five Frugal Dates for Valentine's Day

Wed, 11 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Economic times are tough, but your plans for romance on Valentine's Day don't have to be. Here are five frugal (or even free!) ideas for how to wow the special lady in your life. This year, let Cupid work his magic without wringing you dry.

Forgiveness: In the Name of Love

Tue, 10 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Find out why practicing forgiveness is a major key to a successful and healthy relationship!

Valentine's Day for the Single Gal: 6 Sweet Celebrations

Mon, 09 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Nevermind not having a date on Valentine's Day--there are plenty of things to do with your best gal pals. So call them up and get ready to have one of the best Valentine's Days ever!

What's the Key Ingredient to Happiness?

Fri, 06 Feb 09 13:23:36 -0800

Is it money, love or simply companionship? Read on for some recent findings about what it takes to attain true happiness.

The Top Kissing Complaints

Fri, 06 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Want to know what the top kissing turn offs are? We have a list of what you shouldn't do when you pucker up.

Why Men Don't Call Back

Thu, 05 Feb 09 08:51:39 -0800

You meet, share a great connection, and then...he never calls. Read on for three possible explanations behind this baffling behavior! Brought to you by Christian Carter

The Decent Person's Guide to Breaking Up

Thu, 05 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Breaking up isn't easy, but you can make it easier on the other person by taking these steps.

3 Reasons Men Leave Women They Love

Wed, 04 Feb 09 09:18:21 -0800

Why would a man leave a loving, devoted relationship? Find out three possible reasons now! Brought to you by Christian Carter

What To Do When A Man Won't Open Up

Tue, 03 Feb 09 09:01:18 -0800

Have you ever just sensed that something was off with your guy, but you didn't know what? There could be a pattern to his withdrawal, if you pay close attention. Brought to you by Christian Carter

Surviving Valentine's Day: Do's & Don'ts for The Savvy Single

Tue, 03 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

Single on Valentine's Day? Big deal! The savvy single knows that you don't need a mate to celebrate you!

What Not to Wear On Your Valentine's Date!

Mon, 02 Feb 09 13:56:05 -0800

Here's a few things to keep in mind to sidestep any embarrassing encounters as you choose your February 14 attire!

Why Successful Women Can't Find a Great Man

Mon, 02 Feb 09 00:01:01 -0800

You're smart, independent and a great catch. So why do men seem to choose a less "together" or successful woman over you? Brought to you by Christian Carter

Going Dutch: What Does She Really Think?

Sat, 31 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

At the end of that first date, you offer to split the tab. She accepts. But what does she really think?

5 Things Every Woman Wants to Hear

Thu, 29 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

When it comes to love and relationships, there are a few key phrases that melt our hearts almost every time. We've come up with five of the most amazing things a woman wants to hear from the man she's seriously smitten with.

Dating Tips for Financially Stressful Times

Wed, 28 Jan 09 12:35:50 -0800

Maybe dating has not been at the top of your "to do" list but perhaps it's time to reconsider. It seems that the world's financial instability has had a silver lining -- reminding people that love, family, and connection are what really matters.

Making Sparks Fly: The Chemistry of Romance

Tue, 27 Jan 09 13:58:06 -0800

Dating is often like conducting a chemistry experiment. Here's what to do when the sparks aren't flying!

Aquarius: Your Dating and Relationship Forecast

Mon, 26 Jan 09 14:36:01 -0800

What's in the stars for this astrological sign? Get the fun forecast regarding your dating and love life now!

Report: Mature Couples and Sex

Thu, 22 Jan 09 17:23:32 -0800

How sexually active are couples as they reach their later years? What are the main hurdles to maintaining a healthy sex life as partners age? Read on for some recent findings!

The 'Do you Like Me?' Problem

Thu, 22 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

How do you know if a person likes you without coming right out and asking? Easy. Look for the dozens of non-verbal cues the person is throwing your way.

Betrayal: 5 Steps to Help You Move Forward

Wed, 21 Jan 09 10:15:14 -0800

If you've recently suffered the sting of betrayal, you probably feel like your life is spinning out of control. Between the tears, humiliation, and confusion, you may wonder how you'll ever survive. What follows are five crucial steps to successfully move forward and beat the bite of betrayal.

myShape's Dating Dress Code and Shopping Spree!

Tue, 20 Jan 09 12:33:06 -0800

Ready for some straight talk on date dressing? Review myShape's Dating Dress Code, your dating guide for every date destination and learn how to win a $1,000 shopping spree now!

5 Tips for Keeping an Open Mind (and Heart) When Dating

Tue, 20 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Are you approaching the dating scene with a checklist in hand? Do your dates need to meet a certain criteria--or else? If so, it's time to break your own mold and approach the dating scene with an open mind.

Three Ways to Destroy Your Relationship

Mon, 19 Jan 09 08:32:39 -0800

Author Raphael Cushnir gets candid about that intoxicating "honeymoon phase" -- and the reality of what a real relationship is all about!

What the Evolved Man Wants to Hear from You

Mon, 19 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Let us dispel a myth: All men are not cavemen in need of ego stroking. So go ahead, say what you want and not what you think he wants to hear!

Conquering your Dating and Relationship Fears

Wed, 14 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Okay, dating is not always easy or fun, but it's time to conquer your fears and make things happen for yourself. This is your year!

Why Do you Keep Attracting the Wrong People?

Tue, 13 Jan 09 09:39:59 -0800

If you keep dating the same kind of person--the wrong person--it's time to break the spell.

How Much Does Status Matter?

Tue, 13 Jan 09 00:01:02 -0800

Do you turn people away based on their career goals or lack thereof? If so, you could be closing the door on someone very special.

Are your Expectations too High or Too Low?

Tue, 13 Jan 09 00:01:02 -0800

If everything is never good enough and nothing is just fine, you need an expectations adjustment. Discover how fine tuning what you want and what you need can lead to a more fulfilling dating life.

8 Signs you Shouldn't Be in a Long Distance Relationship

Tue, 13 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Certain personality traits simply do not perform well in long-distance relationships. Check out our list to see if you're equipped to go the distance or suited to a local love affair.

'Last Chance Harvey' Director Joel Hopkins: What I've Learned About Love

Mon, 12 Jan 09 16:05:36 -0800

We talked with the director about relationships, finding love a second time around and his new film, 'Last Chance Harvey,' in theaters January 16th!

The Soulmate Secret: A Cosmic Power Boost to Help You Manifest Big Love

Mon, 12 Jan 09 10:02:25 -0800

Author Arielle Ford reveals what it takes to attract the kind of partner you really want -- and it all begins with a treasure map!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Laura and John

Mon, 12 Jan 09 03:00:00 -0800

She thought she blew the first date; he thought it went great. Meet Laura and John, an eHarmony Success Couple.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Matt and Krissie

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

Here's the story of how two people tired of meeting the wrong potential mates met, fell in love, got married and even overcame a life-threatening illness.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Amber and Michael

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

A Texas couple has a new marriage as strong as a scene from The Notebook.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Trevor and Leslie

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

This long-distance love affair has a happy ending. Read about Trevor and Leslie, an eHarmony success couple who tied the knot in December, 2007.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Steve and Rebekah

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

A fireman and the survivor of a house fire meet through pure fate (with a little help from eHarmony)!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Hannah and Willie

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

Hannah, an Iraq War widow and mother, and stranger to internet dating, sought out eHarmony on the advice of her late husband. There she met the new love of her life.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Melanie and Remco

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

Melanie was about to give up on dating, but then she met Remco for coffee. After a few dates, they knew they were destined to travel the globe together!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Terri and Joseph

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

Terri talks about meeting her real-life prince charming, Joe, and encountering some of life's biggest storms -- literally!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Cherry and Richard

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

Cherry talks about her online dating experiences, a funny family meeting with Richard and finally, setting a wedding date!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Matt and Laura

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

Matt tells his story about online dating and finally meeting the woman of his dreams through eHarmony -- Laura.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Meghan and Jim

Mon, 12 Jan 09 01:01:01 -0800

Despite difficult circumstances, Meghan bravely looks for love and finds it on eHarmony in this inspirational success story!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Shanon and Mike

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

Mike proposed to Shanon exactly year after their first date. How's that for romance?

An eHarmony Success Couple: Shelly and Matthew

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

Shelly and Matthew's first date was at a Bruce Springsteen concert, and their relationship has been nothing but melodic ever since!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Peggy and Ron

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

This couple describes their relationship as miraculous. Read their heartwarming story about finding love the second time around.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Lisa and Vince

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

Lisa finds true love and her best friend Vince through eHarmony - in what she calls a life changing experience!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Michelle and Bill

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

Michelle and Bill connected and then re-connected on eHarmony. Now, they're going to tie the knot.

An eHarmony Success Couple: McKenna and Sean

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

McKenna and Sean traded e-mails for months before finally meeting and getting engaged. Here’s their inspirational story.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Jason and Emily

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

In this touching story, Emily reveals how Jason was there for her as she suffered the devastating loss of her brother.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Anna and Michael

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

Michael and Anna's love story is a true fairytale.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Brooke and Bob

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

Brooke talks about being pleasantly surprised by her eHarmony experience -- especially when she met Bob, her now husband and father of her child-to-be!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Amber and Chad

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

Amber and Chad had a whirlwind romance and now are a happy family of 7!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Holly and Brett

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:05 -0800

A battle with cancer brought this young couple together. Check out Holly and Brett's inspirational story.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Shelley and Ed

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Shelley and Ed’s story will make you believe in miracles!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Laurie and Richard

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Richard tells his emotional story about meeting the inspirational Laurie, just weeks before she would suffer a stroke.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Paul and Kathryn

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Paul and Kathryn married one year after their first date! Read how they transformed each other's lives.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Fri and Phillip

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Fri tells her incredible story about family, support, courage and the amazing new husband she found on eHarmony, Phillip.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Brian and Mary

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Mary opens up about a difficult time in her life, learning to trust again, and finally finding Brian through eHarmony.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Christine and Brian

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Christine and Brian are living proof of what can happen when you forget the past, take a chance and open your heart.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Mark and Courtney

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Mark talks about nearly giving up his hope of finding that special someone -- until he met Courtney -- the perfect match for him!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Jim and Connie

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

At 57, Jim finds himself facing divorce and contending with singlehood all over again. That is until he finds love with Connie!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Sarah and Roy

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:04:01 -0800

Sarah and Roy had to deal with a serious illness after just a few short months of dating. See how they made it through and are now helping others in need.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Daniella and Jim

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

Daniella and Jim find love and support from each other while enduring some tough times in their personal lives.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Lori and Timothy

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

Lori's incredible story of finding the love of her life, Timothy, will make you believe in destiny.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Lisa and Scott

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

Lisa and Scott credit their rock-solid relationship with helping them through the toughest of times. Read their story.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Aaron and Allison

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

Aaron talks about meeting the love of his life Allison in the knick of time -- as he had about ten days left on his eHarmony account!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Steve and SeAnna

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

Steve reveals how he met his soulmate on eHarmony -- another fun-loving, self proclaimed "dork" named SeAnna!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Lisa and Robert

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

Lisa and Robert had indirectly crossed paths before being matched on eHarmony. Read their incredible story of finding love after loss.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Laura and Russ

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

Meet Laura and Russ. They were engaged after 7 months after being matched on eHarmony. This happy couple wants to tell you not to give up the dream of finding a life partner.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Jennifer and James

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

After a short trial on eHarmony, Jennifer met her "superhero"James. Read their inspiring story of courage and love.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Machelle and Dennis

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

It's never too late for happily ever after. Sometimes it's only sixty miles away.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Joshua and Jodie

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:03:01 -0800

A senseless murder took Jodie's sister away from her. But when Jodie married Joshua, they became strong parents to her sister's little girl.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Connie and Malcolm

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

Connie was skeptical about finding love online, until she went out with Malcolm on a 6-hour date!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Ashley and Sharlisa

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

This Success Couple says that there was chemistry right from the start! Read all about Ashley and Sharlisa.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Susan and Joseph

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

Susan shares how eHarmony found the perfect match for her, a man that would change her life and stand by her through some trying times - Joseph.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Kathi and Thomas

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

They waited more than 50 years to meet each other -- and report they are the happiest they've ever been! Meet Kathi and Thomas.

An eHarmony Success Couple: Stewart and Allison

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

Stewart recounts the magical experience of connecting with Allison -- who would eventually become his blushing bride!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Teresa and James

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

Read Teresa and James's inspiring story of long-distance love and romance!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Reginald and Vonetta

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

Vonetta remembers the night Reginald proposed to her in this happy success story!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Julie and Robert

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:06 -0800

Read the story of Julie and Robert, who fell in love and got engaged at the Shedd Aquarium in Chicago!

An eHarmony Success Couple: Teresa and Chad

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:05 -0800

Teresa and Chad grew up minutes apart, but had never met, until they logged onto eHarmony!

Why Men Withdraw and What To Do About It

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Things like criticism and blame can send men running for the hills. Find out the other reasons your guy may be pulling away now! Brought to you by Christian Carter

5 Resolutions You Can Break This Year

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Time for a new year and a new you, right? Not so fast. Instead of trying so hard to change, try a little self-acceptance.

5 Resolutions You Can't Break This Year

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Sure, you can cheat on your diet and skip the gym now and again, but these are 5 resolutions you can't break in 2009.

5 Questions You Need To Ask Your Mate Now

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

You think you've met the one, but you are unsure as to where they stand on the big issues. We have 5 questions you should be asking your mate before you travel any further on the path of happily ever after.

Your Guide to Starting Over

Mon, 12 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Are you ready to make 2009 your year, the year you find someone special, but are unsure how to begin? eHarmony Advice has your guide to starting over.

The Wrong Reasons To Be In A Relationship

Wed, 07 Jan 09 09:23:08 -0800

Don't let fears about loneliness and other insecurities lead you into a bad relationship. Find out how to recognize and avoid this dead-end situation. Brought to you by Christian Carter

Why a Man Settles Down with One Woman and Not Another

Tue, 06 Jan 09 08:57:44 -0800

Have you ever had a great guy break up with you because he was "just not ready for a relationship" and the next thing you know, he's dating someone else and making wedding plans? If this sounds familiar, it doesn't have to happen again! Brought to you by Christian Carter

Nice Guys or Bad Boys - Who Do You Love?

Mon, 05 Jan 09 09:11:23 -0800

Women say they want a nice guy, but do they mean it? It seems that too often women pass up a perfectly good guy and go for the bad boy instead. Whether your type is mean, married, or emotionally unavailable, you can break the cycle of dating bad boys! Brought to you by Christian Carter

The Couple's Guide to Getting Fit in 2009

Thu, 01 Jan 09 00:01:01 -0800

Serious about getting fit in 2009? Now that the holidays are over (and all the goodies have been gobbled), lots of people have health and fitness on the brain -- and not just their own. If you're happily hooked up, you may have your partner's health and fitness in mind as well.

An eHarmony Success Story: Kathleen and David

Mon, 29 Dec 08 13:06:14 -0800

Kathleen talks about the journey from divorce to online dating through eHarmony -- and finally meeting the perfect man for her, David!

5 Great Conversation Starters

Mon, 29 Dec 08 09:03:58 -0800

Coming up with friendly conversation on the spot isn't always easy. We have compiled a list of surefire conversation starters for a stress-free introduction.

Why Men Withdraw from Relationships

Mon, 29 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

You meet a guy. You go out. It's clear that you like each other, and you begin to open up more and more. Then, out of nowhere, he withdraws. Sound familiar?

The Little Black Dress: Still a Dating 'Do'?

Sun, 28 Dec 08 09:25:28 -0800

The short answer is "of course" -- but it's not that simple! Learn what certain accessories, shapes and styles say about you!

He Got You What?! What his Holiday Gift Means

Thu, 25 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Okay, the gifts are in and it's time to start decoding them. Does his gift indicate that he's into you? That he's thoughtful? Or maybe that you need to find a new love interest?

Five Surefire Strategies to Beat The Winter Blahs

Wed, 24 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Even though it's supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, many people feel depressed around the holidays. If you're feeling left out, disenchanted, or like all-around Scrooge, check out these tips for beating the holiday blues.

8 Must-Haves for Stress-Free Date Dressing!

Fri, 19 Dec 08 17:45:17 -0800

We all know dating can get expensive, and especially in the economic climate, appreciating the value of versatility is always key to both cutting wardrobe costs and taking the stress out of dressing to impress.

Stressed about Your Love Life this Holiday? You're Not Alone!

Wed, 17 Dec 08 14:43:53 -0800

Both men and women, single and married, are feeling a little love life stress this holiday season. But who is feeling it the most? Read on for the surprising results from a new survey by eHarmony.

Mixed Messages: A Surefire way to Doom a Young Relationship

Wed, 17 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

The best way to sabotage a relationship is by not being honest about who you are and what you want.

2009 Checklist for Dating Success

Tue, 16 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

With the end of the year just around the corner, it's time to begin thinking about what you want out of your dating life in 2009.

Finding Mr. Right

Mon, 15 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Finding "The One" is not as easy as it seems. In fact, it's not easy at all! But begin with looking inward and you'll be one step closer to finding Mr. Right.

Make a Date...With Denim!

Sat, 13 Dec 08 07:19:48 -0800

So you've got a casual date coming up -- a picnic, bowling, a movie -- and you don't know what to wear? Repeat after me: blue jeans, baby!

Correction to January 7, 2009 Advice Newsletter

Fri, 12 Dec 08 15:57:46 -0800

The January 7, 2009 edition of the eHarmony Advice Newsletter incorrectly stated that voters in the Most Inspirational eHarmony Couple of 2008 contest would be eligible to receive a vacation package courtesy of Sandals resorts.

5 Terrible Conversation Enders

Thu, 11 Dec 08 14:04:25 -0800

Every conversation must eventually draw to a close -- but not a disaster! Avoid these areas of discussion and spare yourself any dating drama.

Intimacy Issues: 4 Must-Tackle Topics That May Scare You

Tue, 09 Dec 08 14:18:03 -0800

From your physical connection to the "exclusivity" status of a relationship, learn how to broach even the most sensitive subjects with ease!

5 Tips for Nabbing a New Year's Date

Tue, 09 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

The countdown to finding a date for New Year's Eve starts now! eHarmony Advice has a few strategies for kicking the year off with someone special.

5 Ways to Seduce your Guy

Mon, 08 Dec 08 09:51:01 -0800

You and your love finally have some alone time! Ignite your relationship romance with these sultry rules of seduction!

5 Dating Deal Breakers for Men

Mon, 08 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

There are certain traits that'll have men running straight for the hills, not the altar. Get clued into these dating deal breakers.

Win a $500 Shopping Spree with HauteLook and eHarmony Advice!

Mon, 08 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

HauteLook and eHarmony are teaming up to give you a chance to win a $500 shopping spree. Enter now to win a whole new look!

5 Great Reasons to be Single During the Holidays

Sun, 07 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Don't let your relationship status play a factor in your holiday cheer. It's still the most wonderful time of the year--especially if you're single!

The Best and Worst Holiday Gifts

Sat, 06 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

During this gift-giving season, sometimes the best of intensions go horribly wrong. Avoid these common present pitfalls.

Take Our Quiz: Are you High Maintenance?

Sat, 06 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Are you the kind of person who has to have things “just so”? Or are you content to just go with the flow? Take our quiz to see where you rank on the “high maintenance” scale.

My Partner Flirts...a Lot

Fri, 05 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Seeing your significant other turn on the charm for a member of the opposite sex can make you feel insecure and angry. eHarmony Advice has a few tips for dealing with a partner who loves to flirt.

3 Attitudes that are Irresistible to a Man

Wed, 03 Dec 08 10:22:37 -0800

Certain attitudes draw the attention of a man. Find out what works and what doesn't! Brought to you by Christian Carter

What it Means if He Doesn't Call

Wed, 03 Dec 08 08:41:16 -0800

He seems interested, but then you never hear from him again. What are the reasons behind his frustrating actions? Read on for the answers! Brought to you by Christian Carter

5 Things Not to Wear on a First Date

Wed, 03 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

If you can't decide what to wear on that next hot date, start with what NOT to wear.

Getting to Know a Man You Met Online

Tue, 02 Dec 08 08:35:25 -0800

You've connected online ... now find out what to do when you meet your cyber-crush in person! Brought to you by Christian Carter

Winter Fashions That'll Heat Your Date Up

Tue, 02 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Baby, it's cold outside! Piling on tons of layers to keep warm doesn't mean you can't look fit, fabulous and sexy this winter.

Why a Man Won't Emotionally Commit

Mon, 01 Dec 08 07:11:50 -0800

In the early stages of dating, he's attentive, affectionate and then you sense a shift. Suddenly, he seems distant and withdrawn --read on for the reasons behind this behavior! Brought to you by Christian Carter

Your Photo Gallery: Tell the Story of your Life

Mon, 01 Dec 08 00:01:01 -0800

Your eHarmony photo gallery doesn't just show your matches what you look like; it tells the story of you: Your interests, your priorities, your humor. Does your gallery represent the real you? If not, here's how it can.

Dating on the Cheap: The Holiday Edition

Sat, 29 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

In today’s bleak economy, making ends meet can be tough, never mind dating! Get a little creative however, and you’ll see that you don’t need heaps of cash to have a good time.

Michelle and Barack Obama: A Relationship Analysis

Tue, 25 Nov 08 14:50:42 -0800

Despite demanding schedules and numerous challenges, Barack and Michelle Obama's 16-year marriage is stronger than ever. Read on to get their recipe for relationship success!

Picking up First Date Clues

Tue, 25 Nov 08 09:47:49 -0800

Learn how to be a dating sleuth! Look for clues to see how well you match up with that potential special someone.

How Long Do I Wait for Him to Commit?

Tue, 25 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

Should you hang in there and wait for a commitment, or think about getting out? Examine yourself, the relationship, and your partner, and the answer will come to you.

Why Men Cheat During the Holidays

Mon, 24 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

Is the craziness of the holiday season driving a wedge between you and your partner? It's not unusual. Discover the reasons men stray during the holiday season.

An eHarmony Success Story: Debbi and Brett

Fri, 21 Nov 08 16:31:01 -0800

Debbi shares her incredible online dating success story -- which includes some unbelievable coincidences!

How to Avoid a Dead-End Relationship

Wed, 19 Nov 08 17:16:19 -0800

Does your relationship feel like a waste of time? If a relationship is going nowhere, it's better to end it sooner rather than later.

Seven Strategies To Help Avoid The 7-Year Itch!

Mon, 17 Nov 08 17:42:07 -0800

How can couples fail-safe their chances at happily ever after? Read on for our strategies on long term relationship success!

What Women Really Want

Mon, 17 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

Many men complain that they can’t figure out what women are looking for when it comes to relationships and dating. Ready to get clued in, guys? We have the guide for you.

20 Chick Flicks Guys Love

Fri, 14 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

He may groan when you hit play on one of these 20 "chick flicks", but deep down inside he loves these movies just as much as you do.

7 Signs a New Relationship is in Trouble

Thu, 13 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

Is your new relationship experiencing normal turbulence, or should you cut your losses and move on? These signs may indicate that your relationship is in real trouble.

Help! Our Sex Life is Dead Boring

Wed, 12 Nov 08 11:02:53 -0800

Read on for key advice regarding one of the most important and intimate aspects of your relationship: Your sex life.

Beyonce and Jay-Z: eHarmony Advice Looks at a Celebrity Relationship

Mon, 10 Nov 08 14:14:17 -0800

Find out what issues Beyonce and Jay-Z may encounter in this analysis of a celebrity supercouple!

The Professional Guide to Good Profile Pictures

Mon, 10 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

eHarmony Advice talks to a professional photographer for tips on how to take the best profile pictures.

8 Signs You're Dating the Wrong Person

Sat, 08 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

That nagging feeling you have about your relationship may be telling you to get out. Here's how to determine whether what you're feeling is normal doubt or something much more serious.

Is Bitterness Sabotaging Your Chances at Love?

Fri, 07 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

Have you been burned so many times that you feel there's no hope when it comes to your dating life? It's a common problem, but the key to finding love is to not let past disappointments embitter you. Here's how.

10 Reasons he Won't Commit

Thu, 06 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

Feeling confused because your sweetie refuses to take your relationship to the next level? One or more of these 10 things could be standing in his way.

L'Oreal Sweepstakes Official Rules

Wed, 05 Nov 08 14:11:27 -0800

An eHarmony Success Story: Suzanne and David

Wed, 05 Nov 08 09:59:11 -0800

After using eHarmony for almost five years, Suzanne and David made a long lasting love connection! Read on for their online dating story!

Backsliding: Why you Should Avoid Sex with the Ex

Wed, 05 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0800

Don't stay stuck in the past. Read on for our serious dating advice about how to avoid falling back into some old and familiar patterns.

Deepak Chopra: What I've Learned About Love

Mon, 03 Nov 08 09:20:43 -0800

We caught up with famous author Deepak Chopra for his thoughts on romance, relationships and those intoxicating feelings of falling in love!

Chinese Dating: A View from the Inside

Sun, 02 Nov 08 13:51:37 -0800

From parental pressures to societal stereotypes, get a first hand perspective on Chinese dating in America right here!

I Really Can't Stand My Partner's Parents

Sat, 01 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0700

You love your partner but hate his or her parents. Learning to cope with your feelings is crucial to the health of your relationship with them and your significant other.

5 Reasons She Doesn't Want to Sleep with You

Sat, 01 Nov 08 00:01:01 -0700

You and your girlfriend are compatible, happy, but haven't taken it to a more serious level. Find out what her reasons might be for not wanting to get that close.

An eHarmony Success Story: Felicity and Bobby

Thu, 30 Oct 08 15:46:19 -0700

Felicity talks about moving on after divorce to find the love of her life, Bobby, on eHarmony!

Unique Answers to Generic Profile Questions

Wed, 29 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

You know that you're an interesting person, but selling yourself via your profile isn't your strong point. Never fear, eHarmony Advice is here to help you craft honest, funny and succinct answers to profile questions.

Rock Your Dating Life This Election Season

Tue, 28 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

With the presidential election right around the corner, dating is probably the last thing on your mind. Instead of putting your romantic pursuits on hold until November 4, seize the opportunity to meet a like-minded soul mate.

Inside the Mind of a Single Guy

Mon, 27 Oct 08 12:19:30 -0700

From his dating dos and don'ts to how he feels about monogamy and marriage -- we're taking you inside the mind of the mysterious single guy!

Jewish Dating: A View from the Inside

Sun, 26 Oct 08 10:26:42 -0700

The thought of one Jewish person dating another Jewish person seems simple and straightforward, but sometimes it's not! Read on for an inside perspective on Jewish dating in America.

Pickup Lines that Actually Work

Sun, 26 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

"Hey baby, what's your sign?" is so 1975. Steal one of these 6 non-cheesy pickup lines instead and you'll see that approaching strangers is easier than it seems.

An eHarmony Success Story: Paul and Pria

Fri, 24 Oct 08 13:40:27 -0700

Pria talks about feeling jaded -- and eventually elated -- after meeting Paul on eHarmony!

How to End a Date Gracefully

Fri, 24 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

The end of the date doesn't always have to be awkward. Use these tips for ending a date with grace and you'll come off as confident and classy.

Can Men and Women Really Just be Friends?

Wed, 22 Oct 08 13:18:58 -0700

Men, women and friendship? It's a question that's been debated for ages so read on as we explore this hot topic!

Scent and Attraction: Love at First Whiff?

Tue, 21 Oct 08 17:26:58 -0700

Find out why your nose might actually be the most powerful guide to meeting that special someone!

An eHarmony Success Story: Charles and Kelsi

Mon, 20 Oct 08 16:23:54 -0700

Charles opens up about loneliness, taking a chance and finding true love with this unique eHarmony success story!

I'm Right, She's Left. Are we Doomed?

Mon, 20 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

You have fun together, there's great chemistry, but you don't vote the same way. Actually, you can't agree on politics at all. Are you doomed?

Online Courtship: 6 Email Do's and Don'ts

Mon, 20 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

For those of us who are new to online dating, what to say in those first few e-mails can be tricky. We have everything you need to know about flirting, what to say and what NOT to say.

8 Signs your Relationship is in Jeopardy

Thu, 16 Oct 08 14:24:46 -0700

These 8 signs may tell you that it's time to call it quits on your relationship.

An eHarmony Success Story: Rebecca and Travis

Wed, 15 Oct 08 12:11:53 -0700

In this success story, Rebecca reveals how frustration in the dating world led her to eHarmony and Travis -- her soon-to-be husband!

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie: eHarmony Advice looks at a Celebrity Relationship

Wed, 15 Oct 08 10:35:26 -0700

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie: Find out what relationship challenges you may have in common with this Hollywood duo in our latest celebrity couple comparison!

Help! I'm Engaged with Cold Feet

Wed, 15 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

When you're engaged, pre-wedding jitters are normal. Major doubts about getting married are not. Here's how to distinguish between those feelings and get rid of cold feet.

What Men Really Want

Tue, 14 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Women complain that men only want one thing, but that's far from true. Check out what men are really looking for in a relationship.

An eHarmony Success Story: Jeanette and Daniel

Mon, 13 Oct 08 15:02:22 -0700

Find out how two single parents, Jeanette and Daniel, found love on eHarmony in this latest success story!

An eHarmony Success Story: Jason and Amy

Sun, 12 Oct 08 09:56:56 -0700

Jason reveals the story behind his eHarmony dating success ... and all about his new wife Amy!

5 Dating Tips for the Shy Guy

Sat, 11 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Pssst. Hey, shy guys! We know there's a wonderful, interesting guy underneath that bashful exterior. We have a few tips for making the dating game easier for you.

Peacekeeping Tips for the Most Common Marriage Arguments

Fri, 10 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Couples tend to fight about the same things over and over again. Find out how to avoid these common pitfalls and keep the peace.

7 Simple Ways to Express Your Love

Thu, 09 Oct 08 16:22:23 -0700

It really is the thought that counts! Learn to say 'I love you' every day in these sweet and simple ways!

What Your Smile Says About You

Wed, 08 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Can you believe there are more than 50 types of smiles? Read on to find out what your gorgeous grin is really saying about you!

Do You Lie to Yourself?

Tue, 07 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Each time you break a promise to yourself you're essentially telling a lie. This keeps you from actually doing better when it comes to the things you want to improve on. Learn how to gain control of your life and stop the lies.

Five Ways Success Destroys Relationships

Mon, 06 Oct 08 00:01:00 -0700

Is your red hot career putting a damper on your dating life? Power, priorities and time constraints can play a big role in this relationship challenge.

Should You Date a Former Cheater?

Sun, 05 Oct 08 00:00:01 -0700

They've cheated before -- but will they do it again? Find out what key factors could determine the dating success for this sensitive scenario.

An eHarmony Success Story: Alison and Tom

Fri, 03 Oct 08 10:24:35 -0700

Read Alison and Tom's touching eHarmony Success Story -- which resulted in a beautiful wedding, happy marriage and growing family!

Dating Tips for the Second Time Around

Fri, 03 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Dating doesn't have to be daunting as long as you know how the game has changed. It's not that different than you remember, either. The key is putting yourself out there.

eHarmony Advice Looks at Celebrity Relationships: Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes

Thu, 02 Oct 08 00:01:02 -0700

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes earn millions of dollars, are instantly recognized the world over, and hobnob with the most popular and accomplished people in society. But at the same time, they are a newly married couple with a young child, and they may face some of the same challenges you do in your relationship.

Reasons you Shouldn't Marry

Thu, 02 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Before you tie the knot, make sure you're doing it for the right reasons. Check out 5 reasons why you shouldn't be getting married.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Albuquerque

Wed, 01 Oct 08 13:05:20 -0700

From Sandia Peak to Old Town and Downtown, we've got historic Albuquerque's top ten dating spots covered!

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Birmingham

Wed, 01 Oct 08 12:35:47 -0700

From kayaking in the Cahaba river to Barber Motorsports Park, it's our comprehensive top ten dating guide for the famous Southern city, Birmingham, Alabama!

Is your Personality Ruining your Relationships?

Wed, 01 Oct 08 00:01:01 -0700

Are you the kind of person who rarely gets mad? Are you usually happy? Your answers are the clues to your personality which can affect your relationships, and the process of finding someone right for you starts with getting to know yourself better.

Take Our First Date IQ Quiz

Tue, 30 Sep 08 00:01:02 -0700

First Dates can be HARD! Take our short quiz and find out whether you have the right stuff to get your relationships off on the right foot.

5 Methods for Getting Over Your Ex

Tue, 30 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Heartbreak is never fun, but deal with your feelings in a positive way and you'll never look back on what once was.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Jacksonville

Mon, 29 Sep 08 17:24:17 -0700

From St. Johns River and Southbank to San Marco, we've got your dating guide covered for the expansive city that is Jacksonville, Florida!

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Oklahoma City

Mon, 29 Sep 08 16:22:53 -0700

What to do with your date in fabulous Oklahoma City? Get lost in space or go cruising in a water taxi! It's all here in our latest top ten dating guide!

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Tucson

Mon, 29 Sep 08 14:20:22 -0700

As the Arizona city rapidly becomes one of the biggest dating hotspots, find out where to go, eat and play with our top ten guide to dating in Tucson!

My Friends and Family Hate My Significant Other

Mon, 29 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

You're happy with your mate, but your friends and family are less than thrilled. Should you ignore them or ditch your significant other?

Interview with Nicholas Sparks: What I've Learned About Love

Mon, 29 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

eHarmony Advice sits down with critically acclaimed novelist Nicholas Sparks to talk about life, love and relationships. Sparks has penned over a dozen books, including The Notebook and Nights in Rodanthe. See what he has to say about life's most complicated subject: Love.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Melbourne

Sun, 28 Sep 08 16:37:39 -0700

Get our Down Under dating guide for the marvelous locale dubbed the world's ultimate sport city, Melbourne, Australia!

4 Signs You're a Rebound

Sat, 27 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

You've met a really nice person and the two of you get along well. But every now and again you feel like they are harboring feelings for the old flame. Is it possible that you're a rebound?

The Secrets of True Romance

Fri, 26 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Lighting Candles + Dimming the Lights + Marvin Gaye = Romance. Right? Wrong. We have the secrets to true romance.

My Friends and My New Partner Fight Over Me

Wed, 24 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

You're in a constant struggle to divide your time between your new significant other and your old friends. How do you handle the need to please both parties?

Tips for Breaking that Dating Dry Spell

Tue, 23 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Down on your luck date-wise? Check out these eHarmony Advice tips for breaking a dating dry spell.

Help! I'm Dating a Cheapskate

Sun, 21 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

In this economy, it pays to be frugal. But there's a difference between frugal and downright miserly. Here's how to deal with a date whose wallet never sees the light of day.

9 Signs You've Met The One

Sat, 20 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

The person you're dating is funny, kind and all around a good person. But is he or she The One? eHarmony Advice has what you need to find out.

Romance for Dummies

Fri, 19 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Not everyone is a born romancer. It takes practice, patience and these 10 tips from eHarmony Advice.

Do we have Enough in Common?

Thu, 18 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

We like each other a lot, but we don't have much in common. Can we maintain a relationship?

8 Bad Reasons to Break Up

Wed, 17 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

If you have a reputation as a bit of a heartbreaker, you're probably ending relationships for the wrong reasons. After all, not every bad day has to spell the end and not every problem is insurmountable. Wondering if you're throwing in the towel too soon? Check out 8 bad reasons to break up.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Detroit

Wed, 17 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

eHarmony Advice gives you what you need to know for dating in Detroit.

Humor Compatibility: What is it? Do you need it?

Tue, 16 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Ask most people what they want in a partner and they'll say a sense of humor. But what if the two of you don't find the same things funny? Are you doomed?

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Sydney

Mon, 15 Sep 08 17:22:19 -0700

Dating and finding long-term relationships are as easy as falling off a log in the dynamic city of Sydney, Australia! Read on for the complete dating guide right here!

Getting Back into the Game

Sat, 13 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Getting back into the dating game after you've been burned is no easy task, that's why eHarmony Advice is here to help.

10 Signs He's Into You

Fri, 12 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Just because he doesn't bring you flowers twice a week or serenade you by moonlight doesn't mean that he's not into you. These signs will let you know that he's smitten.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Portland

Thu, 11 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Climb a mountain, take a walk, or have a drink at a trendy bar. Whatever your plans for your next date are, Portland has it all. Check out the Top Ten Guide for Dating in Portland.

Is Your Friend Really a "Frenemy"?

Wed, 10 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Is your so-called friend really a "Frenemy"--a malicious person who subtly puts you down? If you suspect the answer is yes, it's time to learn the signs and ditch that frenemy fast.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in San Jose

Tue, 09 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

eHarmony Advice has you need to know about Dating in San Jose. Check out our top 10 tips for dating in this Northern Californian city.

5 Things it's NOT Okay to Ask on a First Date

Mon, 08 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

In an effort to get to know your date, you turn the conversation to him or her, firing off seemingly innocuous questions. Or are they? Surprisingly, some people don't know the difference between appropriate dinner conversation and what should be left for, well...never.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Phoenix

Sun, 07 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

eHarmony Advice has everything you need to know for dating in the Valley of the Sun.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Charlotte

Sat, 06 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

eHarmony Advice has the inside scoop to dating in Charlotte. Check out our Top Ten Tips.

How the Dating Game has Changed

Fri, 05 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Long before you were born, Mom was out playing the dating game. See how the rules have changed since your mother was looking for Mr. Right.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Indianapolis

Thu, 04 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Indianapolis has the best of both worlds: A big city vibe with a small Midwestern town feel. Discover what Indianapolis holds for you and your next big date.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in San Antonio

Tue, 02 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

They don't call it "Fiesta City" for nothing. Check out the Top Ten Guide to Dating in San Antonio, Texas.

We're a Couple. How do we Handle Friendships with the Opposite Sex?

Mon, 01 Sep 08 00:01:01 -0700

Now that you're paired up, you or your new significant other may feel a little uncomfortable socializing with your opposite-sex friends. Here's how to handle the situation so that everyone wins.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Las Vegas

Sun, 31 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

There's so much more to Las Vegas than the Strip. Check out eHarmony's Top 10 Guide to dating in Las Vegas.

When You're the Real 40-Year-Old Virgin

Sat, 30 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

For you, The 40-Year-Old Virgin isn't just a movie, it's your life. eHarmony has a little insight into your situation, and no, you aren't alone.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Houston

Fri, 29 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Dating in Houston, a city of more than two million people, is a snap with eHarmony Advice's Top 10 Guide.

How Soon is Too Soon to Sacrifice?

Thu, 28 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

You're falling in love with a terrific person and things are going great. Still you wonder, how soon is too soon to rearrange your life for him or her?

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Baltimore

Wed, 27 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Nicknamed "Charm City", there's no shortage of activities for you and that special someone in Baltimore.

How to Fix a Terrible Kisser

Tue, 26 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

You've met a terrific person, but they could use some help in the pucker-up department. But by using a few subtle hints, you can transform so-so kisser into a pro in no time.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Philadelphia

Mon, 25 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Philadelphia is the home of the Liberty Bell, William Penn and Benjamin Franklin. It's where the first reading of the Declaration of Independence and the writing of the Constitution took place. And it's also a happening date spot.

Help! I'm Never in the Mood!

Sat, 23 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

If you're having problems in the bedroom, you're not alone. It's thought that up to 40% of American women and 25% of American men suffer from a low sex drive. We have six steps that will help to reinvigorate your libido and rock your love life.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Fort Worth

Fri, 22 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

If you're looking for a good time in Fort Worth, Texas, look no further. eHarmony Advice presents the Top 10 Dating Guide for Fort Worth.

Singled Out: When You're the Only One Not in a Relationship

Thu, 21 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

If you routinely find yourself the only one without a plus one in your social circle, you may eventually start to question your choices. Don’t let the pressure get to you! Instead, celebrate the single life.

5 Tips for Spotting a Con Man

Tue, 19 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

The vast majority of people you meet online are honest and well-meaning, but there are a few nefarious con men (and women) trolling the Internet looking to scam money. Here's what you need to know to avoid becoming a victim.

5 Friends Every Woman Needs

Tue, 19 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

They lift us up, give us a hand when we need it, and tell us that we need to fire our hairdresser. Where would be without our friends? Check out the 5 friends that every woman needs.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Vancouver

Sun, 17 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Vancouver is both bustling and beautiful, making it the perfect city for a romantic and fun evening out on the town. Explore eHarmony's Top 10 Dating guide to dating in Vancouver.

5 Hard-Learned Love Lessons

Sat, 16 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Some of the love lessons you learn in life and love may be hard to swallow, but they'll ultimately make you a stronger, healthier, and happier individual.

12 Signs you're Ready to Get Engaged

Fri, 15 Aug 08 16:39:26 -0700

Think you're ready to take that next step in your relationship? These 12 signs are good indicators that you and your sweetie are ready to say 'I do'.

Meet Someone Special at These Places

Wed, 13 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Having problems meeting quality people at bars or the gym? If the answer is yes, it's time to break out of your old routine and try a new adventure.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Miami

Tue, 12 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

It has the beach, a vibrant party scene and culture. You guessed it: Miami. Check out eHarmony Advice's Top 10 List for dating in Miami.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Atlanta

Mon, 11 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

A great date in Atlanta begins with eHarmony Advice. Check out our Top 10 Guide for dating in "Hotlanta."

Are you too Intimidating?

Sun, 10 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

There's a fine line between self-assured and intimidating. Is it possible that you come off to others as unapproachable?

Dating and Technology: What's Appropriate?

Sat, 09 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

In this modern world, technology plays a big part in our lives. Don't do yourself in by misusing it in your love life.

How to Break up Without Breaking your Partner's Ego

Thu, 07 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Ending a relationship is never fun, but do it with grace, class and sensitivity, and your ex will thank you for it. (Sooner or later)

5 Photos that Make you Look Undateable

Wed, 06 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

As novices of online dating, some people don't realize that their profile picture doesn't represent them well. If your personal profile isn't yielding the amount of clicks you'd like, the problem may be your portrait.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Minneapolis

Tue, 05 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

Looking for a new dating adventure in Minneapolis? Let eHarmony Advice guide you.

Marijuana Use: Dating Deal Breaker?

Tue, 05 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

eHarmony Advice wants to know your opinion on marijuana consumption. More than 10 million Americans admit they are regular marijuana smokers. How do you handle this issue if it comes up in your dating life?

5 Friends Every Guy Needs

Fri, 01 Aug 08 00:01:01 -0700

As our chosen family, friends play an important role in our lives. Check out the 5 friends that every man needs.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in London

Thu, 31 Jul 08 00:01:03 -0700

eHarmony Advice has 10 Tips for Dating in London.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Seattle

Thu, 31 Jul 08 00:01:02 -0700

Your guide to dating in the Emerald City.

Go Ahead, Act Like a Teenager

Thu, 31 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Feel like you're stuck in a rut? Acting like someone half your age may help you to rediscover the joy of living.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Toronto

Tue, 29 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

eHarmony Advice presents the Top 10 List for Dating in Toronto.

Relationship Analysis: Meredith Grey and Derek Shepherd (Grey's Anatomy)

Tue, 29 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

A lot can be learned from television relationships. eHarmony Advice explores the relationship between Drs. Meredith Grey and Derek Shepherd of the hit TV show, Grey's Anatomy.

5 Things to Rock Your Love Life (Today)

Mon, 28 Jul 08 16:29:54 -0700

Singles scene got you down? Don't let it. There are too many possibilities out there waiting for you.

Decoding the Emotional Affair

Sat, 26 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

An emotional affair can be just as devastating to a relationship as a physical one. So what's the difference between a close relationship with a member of the opposite sex and an emotional affair?

5 Types of Men that Women Avoid

Sat, 26 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Women don't think twice about brushing these kinds of guys off.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Boston

Fri, 25 Jul 08 12:10:21 -0700

Check out the eHarmony Advice Top 10 Guide for dating in Boston.

5 Types of Women that Men Avoid

Fri, 25 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Men don't give these personalities a second thought.

What Signals are you Sending?

Thu, 24 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Not sure how you come off to other people? It's a common problem. See if you're sending that special someone the wrong signal.

Is it Okay to Lie About your Age, Weight, or Anything?

Tue, 22 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

In this superficial world, is it okay to fudge the numbers when it comes to your age, income or weight or is honesty the best policy?

Don't Say Another Word! When to Stop Communicating

Tue, 22 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Communication is key to a great relationship, but there are certain instances when too much talking can do more harm than good. Here's when you should call it quits on trying to work it out.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Chicago

Sun, 20 Jul 08 15:36:59 -0700

Looking for a fantastic date idea in Chicago? Look no further.

Dealing with the Work Spouse

Sat, 19 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Let's do some math. 8 hours a day x 5 days a week = a lot of time spent with co-workers. As a result many workers develop spousal-like relationships with their colleagues. Here's how to keep things professional and cope if your significant other is "married" to someone at work.

Is it Love or Lust?

Fri, 18 Jul 08 15:31:17 -0700

Is the intense attraction you feel for your partner love or is it lust? When you're blinded by the euphoria of the beginning stages of a relationship it can be hard to distinguish desire from true love. How to tell if what you've got is the real deal or just sex appeal

Five Ways to Scare a Guy Away

Fri, 18 Jul 08 09:54:05 -0700

Ladies, is your dating behavior scaring guys away? Check out what you shouldn't do or say on those first few dates.

Communication 101

Thu, 17 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Do you know how you feel but sometimes have problems expressing it? It's a common problem but one that's easily solved. Check out the basics of communication by eHarmony Advice.

Demystifying the Single Woman

Wed, 16 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Ever wonder what goes on inside the single woman's mind when it comes to dating? It's not as dark, mysterious, or scary as you might think. In fact, by getting to know what and how we think, you may just discover a thing or two that'll make trying to date us easier.

The Top 10 Guide to Dating in San Diego

Tue, 15 Jul 08 14:57:00 -0700

eHarmony Advice presents a guide to everything you need to know for dating in sunny San Diego.

How to Broach Your Finances

Mon, 14 Jul 08 13:41:15 -0700

Money is always a tricky topic, but it shouldn’t be glossed over when a relationship gets serious. Don’t let it be an obstacle to finding love. Whether you’ve hit the jackpot or are drowning in debt, discover the etiquette to revealing what you’ve got.

How to Tackle Acute Nerves

Mon, 14 Jul 08 13:28:48 -0700

Does the thought of meeting a new match leave you panic-stricken? Do you stammer your way through dates? Find out how to channel your anxiety to positive effect.

How to End Bad Relationship Patterns

Mon, 14 Jul 08 13:15:31 -0700

Do your relationships keep following a similar path? Whether you’re single or have a new partner, identify the warning signals to prevent the same mistakes.

Scent of Attraction

Mon, 14 Jul 08 12:26:56 -0700

Discover why your nose could help you find love.

What Deserves a Second Chance?

Mon, 14 Jul 08 11:54:38 -0700

Any marriage or long-term relationship has its rocky patches. But if you’re the one who has been hurt, how do you decide whether you should stay or walk?

The Secret to Finishing a Date Gracefully

Mon, 14 Jul 08 11:35:42 -0700

Whether you’re hoping to secure date number 2 or part ways without hurt feelings, avoid end-of-date awkwardness with these fail-safe tips.

Dating UK: The 5 Essential Rules

Mon, 14 Jul 08 11:14:23 -0700

While there’s no handbook to dating in the UK, there are certain rules that are vital for success. Ignore these at your own peril.

Dating UK: the 4 most common blunders

Mon, 14 Jul 08 10:31:25 -0700

While dating is never plain sailing, some mistakes can be avoided with forward planning and thought.

When and How Do You Talk About the Future?

Mon, 14 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

You know what you want, but how and when do you ask if your significant other wants the same thing? eHarmony Advice has your guide here.

Dating Online: 6 Email Do's and Don'ts

Sun, 13 Jul 08 17:54:39 -0700

For newcomers to online dating, those first few emails can be a daunting prospect. Find out what works and what to avoid at all costs.

Feeling Singled Out?

Sun, 13 Jul 08 17:43:44 -0700

If you're the only singleton in your social circle it's easy to start questioning your choices. Discover how to have courage in your convictions and relish your single status.

5 Ways to Learn From Past Relationships

Sun, 13 Jul 08 17:33:36 -0700

Single again? Take heed of the old adage "What doesn't break you makes you grow stronger" and discover how to find something positive in relationship failures.

4 Tips for Re-Entering the Dating Scene

Sun, 13 Jul 08 17:09:10 -0700

Dating for the second time around doesn't have to be daunting. Find out how the game has changed and the secrets to success.

When The Honeymoon Phase Comes to an End

Sun, 13 Jul 08 16:50:03 -0700

Single again? Take heed of the old adage "What doesn't break you makes you grow stronger" and discover how to find something positive in relationship failures.

5 Situations Where it Pays to Be Jealous

Sat, 12 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Feeling jealous in your relationship? It could be that something is wrong. Check out these instances where it pays to be jealous.

When you Should Ask Him Out

Fri, 11 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

You think your crush is interested but you're not 100% sure. If he's giving you these signals, you won't be turned down when you ask him out.

How to Get the Perfect Amount of Matches

Thu, 10 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

You've joined eHarmony and you're either inundated with matches or still waiting for one. What do you do?

Summer Fashions that will Turn your Date Cold

Wed, 09 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

It's summer again and 'tis the season for shorts, sandals and...cowboy boots? If you're looking to impress your next hot date, learn what not to wear here.

How to Help a Friend Dump a Chump

Tue, 08 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

It's hard to sit back and watch a friend date a person who's no good. Instead of trashing the loser in an effort to make her see the light, try these tactics for helping your friend dump a chump.

High vs. Low Maintenance

Sat, 05 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

I'm one, my partner's the other. Is this a problem?

The Secret of Sex Appeal

Fri, 04 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

Why is it that some people are just sexier than others? We can tell you that has little to do with one's appearance. Sexiness comes from within, and tapping into it is easier than you think.

7 Fatal Flaws of Selection

Wed, 02 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

With so many conflicting notions of what love is, it’s no wonder that many people seek out incompatible relationships. Discover the 7 Fatal Flaws...

Can you Date these People and Live to Tell About it?

Tue, 01 Jul 08 00:01:01 -0700

The boss. The neighbor. The brother of a friend. Is it worth it to date these people given that the relationship may not work out?

5 Breakup Phrases: Words that Signal the End

Sat, 28 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

These 5 little sentences can spell big trouble for your relationship.

Am I Being Lied To?

Fri, 27 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

Do you have a nagging suspicion that your partner is lying to you? Perhaps it's a figment of your imagination, but maybe it's something more. Learn how to cope with feelings of distrust, being lied to, and moving on.

You've Cheated. Now What?

Tue, 24 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

You've cheated. Will you keep it a secret, or fess up? Do you want to make your relationship work or end it and pursue the person you've cheated with? And what about forgiveness?

Are You Repeating Your Parents' Mistakes?

Mon, 23 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

Oftentimes we mirror the relationship behavior we saw growing up. In order to achieve relationship success you may first need to acknowledge the role your parents' relationship plays in your life. Here's how.

Clingy Behavior you Need to Nix Now

Sun, 22 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

If you are a relationship cling-on you could be scaring your partners away. But exercise some independence and your relationship will thrive.

4 Signs You're a Control Freak

Fri, 20 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

If everything is your way or the highway, you're probably a control freak. Controlling your controlling ways may be the key to finding a significant other.

7 Love Songs to Celebrate the Summer Season

Wed, 18 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

Ready to ring in the summer the right way? Grab a lawn chair, a cold drink and soak up the season with these 7 summertime songs.

How To Become a Better Catch

Tue, 10 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

You can instantly become a better catch. How? By improving your pattern of communication. Your love life will sink or swim by how well you communicate.

Relationships, Weddings, Babies. I’m Getting Left Behind!

Tue, 10 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

Your friends are pairing up, getting married and starting families. What's a single person to do?

The Guide to Dating in Los Angeles

Mon, 09 Jun 08 13:36:54 -0700

What exactly do you need to know to be a dating success in La La Land?

Are you Boring your Dates to Death?

Sun, 08 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

If you can't remember the last time you scored a second date, pause for a second and reflect. Was your end of the conversation interesting or yawn-worthy? If it’s the latter, we have some tips for getting back into the game.

Are you Forcing your Feelings for Someone?

Sat, 07 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

Your new beau is funny, attractive and smart, yet something is missing. It's time to check in with your feelings and reassess your relationship.

5 Dating Rules you Should Never Break

Fri, 06 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

No one said dating was easy, but follow these five rules and you'll enjoy a richer experience as a single person.

How to Divulge your Financial Worth or Debt

Thu, 05 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

Talking about money is never fun, but it’s bound to come up when you are getting serious with your significant other. Whether you are drowning in debt or rolling in money, there’s a time and a place for broaching the very uncomfortable topic of financial worth.

Relationship or Rivalry: Are you in Constant Competition?

Tue, 03 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

Competition keeps us on our toes and puts us in check when we need it. But too much of it can destroy relationships. If you and your partner act more like brother and sister than lovers, you could be headed for disaster. Work together and you can achieve anything.

Classmates Mortgage and Gas Giveaway

Mon, 02 Jun 08 00:01:01 -0700

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The Two Vital Steps to Trading Places

Sat, 31 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

In the third of a four-part series, relationship experts Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott reveal how to achieve lasting love.

The Do's and Don'ts of Dealing with Your Ex

Thu, 29 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

A breakup can leave you feeling vulnerable, lonely and otherwise not thinking straight. Here's how to handle the heartbreak, unexpected run-ins and the urge to seek revenge.

6 Situations When the "Real You" Emerges

Thu, 29 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

We all try to remain on our best behavior when we are dating someone new. But eventually we slip and get tired, irritated or whiny. See how certain situations can bring out the worst in us and what it means when it happens to person you're dating.

How to Deal with Extreme Nervousness

Thu, 29 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Going on a date with someone new can be extremely nerve-wracking for some people. So much so that they ruin their chances at a second date. Check out these tips for dealing with extreme dating anxiety.

The Look of Love: Meeting His Parents

Wed, 28 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Meeting a man's parents will always evoke a bit of anxiety (if not sheer terror) in a woman. After all, you want to make a good impression. You want them to like you and like you with their son. We're here to help you channel grace, poise and ease--from the outside in--for this momentous meeting.

Common Love Myths and How They Affect Your Dating Life

Tue, 27 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Because we've been exposed to fairy tales since childhood, it's natural to think that our love lives are a fairy tale just waiting to happen. Buying into these common love myths can ruin your chances at finding a true mate.

Should you Snitch on your Cheating Friend?

Mon, 26 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

You are stuck between a rock and a hard place because one of your friends may be cheating on another one of your friends. Do you tell or keep your mouth shut?

Ladies: 9 Reasons You Should Date a Nerd

Mon, 26 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Largely ignored in high school and overshadowed by their cooler classmates, nerds have something special to offer in the dating world. Namely, they are interesting, quirky and will treat you like gold.

eHarmony Profile Makeover: May 2008

Sun, 25 May 08 00:01:02 -0700

Not getting any response from your matches? Your profile might need a makeover. This month, our experts helped one lucky (and anonymous) eHarmony member tweak her About Me profile! Learn step-by-step tips that could help you attract The One!

Flirting 201: More than Meets the Eye

Sun, 25 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

A warm smile, lingering eye contact, a touch on the arm--these flirtatious behaviors go far in letting someone know that you are attracted to them. What signals are you giving off and is your date picking up on them?

5 Reasons to Love Being Single

Sat, 24 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Down about your single status? Don't be: This is a chance to focus on you. Check out the sunny side of living single.

Becoming Your Most Attractive Self

Fri, 23 May 08 01:00:00 -0700

Yes, physical appearance is an undeniable part of attraction. But there's much more to the equation. Find out 5 more ways you can up your personal attractiveness factor - from the inside out.

Empathy: From Brain to Brain and Heart to Heart

Wed, 21 May 08 13:05:27 -0700

Being able to feel for others is pivotal to maintaining healthy relationships. It turns out that researchers can now explain the science of empathy.

When an Ex Refuses to Exit: How to Deal with the Ex in Denial

Wed, 21 May 08 00:01:02 -0700

You've cut ties, but somehow your ex is still in the picture. Getting the message that the two of you are through is all about setting boundaries and sticking to them.

Self-Image: The Mind-Body Connection

Wed, 21 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

More often than not, that bad hair day or "giant" zit is all in your mind. The key to looking good is feeling good, so can the self-doubt and criticism and you can look stunning in no time.

First-Date Fashion for Women

Thu, 15 May 08 00:01:02 -0700

Step out in style to your first date this season with these Spring-into-Summer fashion basics that will amplify your own style and teach you a few new tricks to take your right now to wow. With these basic tips and simple pairings, you will feel confident in your ability to cook up a delicious outfit for any occasion.

Help! I Can't Stand the Rejection

Thu, 15 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Nobody said making your way through the dating world is easy. When you're hit with a string of bad dates, no-shows and never-calls, keeping your head above it all can be tricky. But never fear, eHarmony Advice is here to give you a boost.

The Beauty Myth and You

Thu, 15 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

In today’s world, no one is immune. Men and women alike feel the pressure to look perfect - especially when they are looking to attract the opposite sex. Get three tips to keep your sanity and self-esteem in check when you are single.

Dealing with Disproportionate Salaries

Wed, 14 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

You are really into a budding relationship, but your new love makes way more money than you do. Or way less. How do you broach very sticky subject of disproportionate salaries in a relationship?

5 Toxic Personalities you Should Avoid

Thu, 08 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Dealing with different personalities is a part of life, but certain people simply aren't worth the hassle. Avoid these toxic personality types and you'll be rewarded with a happier existence.

Introducing eHarmony Groups

Mon, 05 May 08 12:03:54 -0700

Want to find other eHarmony Advice members who love dogs? Are into golf? Are over 40? eHarmony Advice is offering users a chance to find and attract like-minded people with our new Groups Feature.

Should you Cut your Losses?

Sat, 03 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Perfect relationships only exist in fairy tales. Still, sometimes it's hard to tell if the doubts about your relationship are normal or a sign of a bigger problem. Dig a little deeper and the answer will find you.

Want to be More Attractive? Be Nice!

Fri, 02 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Mom said beauty begins on the inside. It turns out she was right (Again). Research suggests that individuals who show positive personality traits are perceived as better looking.

Are you an Eeyore?

Thu, 01 May 08 00:01:01 -0700

Remember Eeyore, the fabled character from Winne the Pooh stories? Some people live their lives in a cloud of pessimism and sadness, just like him. Here's how to identify if you are like too much Eeyore and how to snap out of it.

Dating: When to Spend and When to Splurge

Thu, 24 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

As if dating didn't come with its own set of challenges, it's expensive to boot. But taking someone out doesn't have to be if you know when to splurge and where to save.

How to Deal with an Embarrassing Family

Tue, 22 Apr 08 14:55:20 -0700

No one has the perfect family. In fact, most of us can count a few colorful characters as relatives. If you are introducing your new significant other to your clan, read this first.

A Note From the Publisher

Mon, 21 Apr 08 13:10:00 -0700

Dating Multiple People...Good Idea?

Wed, 16 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

Is dating multiple people dishonest, sleazy, and flat-out wrong? Or is it healthy, even beneficial, to date multiple people at the same time in your quest to find a soul mate?

Your Guide to Foods that Heal

Tue, 15 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

Feeling sluggish, bloated or just all around blah? We’d be willing to wager it’s your diet. Here’s a guide to foods that’ll make you feel better.

Spring Cleaning: Your Life After the Ex

Mon, 14 Apr 08 09:41:34 -0700

If a breakup has left you inconsolable, take heart--we've all been there. Here's your guide for getting over the ex and on with your life.

The Top 5 Male Turnoffs

Fri, 11 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

While it’s important to know how to light a man’s fire, it’s equally important to understand what douses his dating flames.

Dressing Like You Mean It: The Hot Date

Wed, 09 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

There's no denying it. When you've met someone online, exchanged flirty emails, and had a couple of intriguing phone conversations, the pressure of that first date looms large. It's a critical time to look and feel your absolute best. That’s why eHarmony and partner Neutrogena are here to help you channel confidence - from the outside in - for your next hot date.

New eHarmony Feature: Icebreakers

Tue, 08 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

Want to initiate contact with a match but don't know where to start? We get it: that's why eHarmony is introducing Icebreakers.

The Successful Woman's Guide To Dating

Tue, 08 Apr 08 00:00:17 -0700

You should never have to apologize for having a career and making great money. But the reality is that at some point in your dating life you may encounter a great guy who's intimidated by you. These five tips should help navigate the sometimes sensitive subject of your success.

The Secret to Finding the Love You Want

Fri, 04 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

You can't buy it in a store, but once you have it you're guaranteed a better relationship. Empathy. Read what relationship experts Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott have to say about empathy, trading places and finding the love of your life.

eHarmony Profile Makeover: April 2008

Thu, 03 Apr 08 17:13:21 -0700

Dressing Down: The Outdoor Date

Thu, 03 Apr 08 12:25:20 -0700

You've been on a few fun dates with a new eHarmony match. The two of you have great chemistry and the conversation flows easily. Looking sexy and put-together at night on the town may be easy, but how about in bright sunshine deep in the woods? That's not quite so easy.

Matchmaking Around the World

Tue, 01 Apr 08 00:01:01 -0700

They've been around since the beginning of time and have paired billions of couples: matchmakers. Learn how these esteemed fortune tellers determined what made a "perfect match."

New eHarmony Feature: Who's Viewed Me?

Sat, 29 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

Wondering which of your matches have been checking out your profile page? We thought so. That's why eHarmony is introducing the "Who's Viewed Me?" feature. This service allows you to see who's been viewing your page within the past two weeks.

Adrenaline-Pumping Dates

Fri, 28 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

Looking for a first date activity that you'll never forget? Forego dinner and go do something that will get your heart pumping.

PMS and Sex: Information Men and Women Need to Know

Wed, 26 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

Don't be shy, guys. You may have a foggy idea of what PMS is, but knowing what's really going on with her hormones can translate into a better relationship.

Do you have Realistic Expectations?

Tue, 25 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

Are your standards so high that you're setting yourself up for disappointment? Discover the fine line between waiting for Prince Charming and debarking the train at Loserville.

Your Guide to the Best Double Date

Sun, 23 Mar 08 00:00:01 -0700

Double dating can be a valuable resource in the savvy single's dating arsenal. Here are five easy tips to ensure your next double date is a success.

Why Are All of My Matches So Different?

Sat, 22 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

Many eHarmony members want to know why their matches are so very different. If we match based in personality, shouldnï¿½t there be a common thread running through all of your matches? Read on to find out.

Is Your Mojo No Go?

Fri, 21 Mar 08 13:47:12 -0700

If you want to be one of those people who snags dates with ease, you need to tap into your mojo. What's that, you ask? We have everything you need to know plus how to tap into it.

The Case for Separate Finances

Tue, 18 Mar 08 14:16:53 -0700

Studies reveal that couples fight about money more than everything else. Avoiding the hassle of it all can be as easy as keeping your money away from each other. Trust us, it's possible.

Can you Predict if they'll Cheat?

Mon, 17 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

We all know infidelity is wrong, yet up to 25% of men and 15% of women will cheat on their spouse at some point in their lifetime. Find out what makes a cheater and how to avoid becoming involved with one.

Can you be too Honest?

Sat, 15 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

In a word: yes. Honesty may be best the policy, but that doesn't mean you should tell it all. Learn what should be aired and what shouldn't.

What Men Really Think About your Body

Fri, 14 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

Wondering if he really thinks your butt looks big in those pants? Wondering if the thinks your butt looks big, period? Find out what guys really think of your body here. (Hint: you are being too hard on yourself!)

Lose Weight with Hidden Exercise

Fri, 14 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0700

Depressed because you haven't gotten in shape since promising to on Jan 1? Sneak some "hidden exercise" into your routine and you'll see that burning calories does add up.

Do Something Good for your Relationship (and the World)

Tue, 11 Mar 08 15:44:27 -0700

Now that you are nestled nicely into your relationship, have you ever considered taking on tasks outside yourselves? Something for the greater good? Uniting to accomplish something that's completely selfless is the ultimate team-building experience. Not to mention you're likely to meet people with similar interests and make memories for years to come.

How to Fail at Falling In Love

Sat, 08 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0800

Many people buy into the myth that being in love means being "complete." If you are waiting for that special someone to make you whole, you are almost guaranteed to fail at falling in love.

Mapping Out that First Couple's Trip

Tue, 04 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0800

A good indicator of whether you are a good couple is how you travel together. We know there'll be surprises, but plan ahead and you'll avoid disaster on that first voyage out of town.

Stressed Out? Take this Test

Sun, 02 Mar 08 00:01:01 -0800

Stress takes a toll on us all. Take our eHarmony Labs test and see exactly how the stress in your life is affecting your ability to find and appreciate the love of your life.

To Bed or Not to Bed? That Is the Question!

Fri, 29 Feb 08 00:08:06 -0800

Finding the right relationship can be tough. It's especially tricky when your views on sex differ from the norm. Learn how sharing your personal beliefs can lead to the perfect match for you.

Are Men Really the More Superficial Sex?

Thu, 28 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Look at our discussion boards and you'll see that men put a lot of emphasis on how their date looks. And women? Well, a study reveals that the more money their dates earn the more likely they are to get a second date. So, how do we bridge the gap?

Which Celebrity Relationship Most Mirrors Yours?

Mon, 25 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Do you and your significant other share an age gap a la Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones? Remain happily unmarried like Goldie and Kirk? What celebrity relationship is most like your own?

eHarmony Feature: Secure Call

Mon, 25 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

eHarmony Secure Call is the safe, anonymous and confidential way to talk to your matches over the phone without ever having to reveal your phone number!

How to Get Good at Dating

Sun, 24 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Becoming an expert dater requires a little practice and the ability to read people accurately. Hone in on your listening skills, pay attention to cues and have a little fun, and before you know it you'll be a dating pro.

Getting the Numbers Right: Can Science help us Choose Mr. or Ms. Right?

Sat, 23 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

What's love got to do with numbers? Well, according to some research, everything. Check out some very interesting stats about probability and finding the love of your life.

How to Tell if She Wants a Kiss

Fri, 22 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Going for the end-of-night kiss is all about picking up on subtle hints. Tune in into your date's desire to pucker up and you'll avoid those awkward moments.

Flirting 101 for the Ladies

Thu, 21 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Hey ladies, flirting doesn't mean you have to ooze with sex appeal--it's more about tapping into your confidence. We know flirting doesn't come naturally to everybody; that's why we have your guide here.

The Relationship Killers: 8 Things you Should Never Say

Wed, 20 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

We are all going to fight in our relationships, but whether we fight fair is another story. Avoid these eight phrases and you'll be one step closer to a happier, healthier relationship.

What's your Dating Motion Picture Personality?

Sun, 17 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Are you a James Bond? A Holly Golightly? Or Alex Forrest, the stalker who boiled a bunny in Fatal Attraction? What motion picture personality resembles your own when it comes to love and romance?

What are your Dreams Telling You?

Sat, 16 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Dismissing your dreams as mere figments of your imagination is a mistake especially if you are going through a tumultuous time with your partner. Haunted by a reoccurring dream? See what it could mean here.

Marooned in the 80s? A Guide to Rediscovering your Style

Fri, 15 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

eHarmony Advice is asking you to take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror. Is your style, well, not of this decade? If yes, we can bring you up to speed with a few simple suggestions.

eHarmony Goggles: When are your Matches the Most Attractive?

Fri, 15 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Studies reveal that perceptions of attractiveness change according to the time of day. Find out when you are the most attractive to your matches and why you may want to stick around until closing time.

Picking your Battles

Thu, 07 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Overlooking hurtful behavior is bad for your relationship and bad for your health. Our studies reveal that talking to your partner about what annoys you can only benefit your relationship. Now's the time to start speaking up!

Meet the Ireland Sweepstakes Winner!

Mon, 04 Feb 08 13:36:40 -0800

One lucky eHarmony Advice user is headed to the Emerald Isle. Meet her now!

Little Physical Attraction = Deal Breaker?

Mon, 04 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

You're matched with a nice person, but you're not physically attracted to them. Are you shallow? Is this a deal breaker?

Singlehood, Valentine's Day and the Good Life

Mon, 04 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Single? Don't get down on Valentine's Day. Use February 14th to celebrate your commitment towards finding a healthy and worthwhile relationship. Aren't you worth it?

A Quick History of Valentine's Day

Sat, 02 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Ever wonder why we celebrate love in the middle of February? Well, the practice goes back to ancient times and involves a very mysterious saint. Want to learn more? Check out our quick history of Valentine's Day.

Legendary Love: Famous Romances throughout History

Fri, 01 Feb 08 00:01:01 -0800

Whether scandalous, inspiring or tragic, everyone loves a good love story. Check out eHarmony Advice's compilation of the world's most famous love stories, then add yours to the list.

Why are you a Quitter?

Thu, 31 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Already thrown up your hands at your New Year's Resolutions? Going to let another year slip by without changing a thing about yourself? It's easier just to be miserable, right? Wrong. Now's the time to change your life for good.

Wanted: Tall, Dark, Rich and Nice. Why Do Women Want It All?

Wed, 30 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Do you really have to make a lot of money, be dazzlingly attractive and drive an expensive car to get the girl? Yes and no. See what science says about the laws of attraction.

Win a Free Trip to NYC in our Definitely, Maybe Sweepstakes!

Tue, 29 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

eHarmony Advice is giving away a trip for two to New York city, setting for the romantic comedy, Definitely, Maybe. The film, which opens February 14th, stars Ryan Reynolds and Abigail Breslin. Entering is easy and free—just create a post telling us why you want to go to New York City.

What to Do When She's More Successful

Tue, 29 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

It's a sad fact that many men have a problem with successful women. Well guys, you don't have to be intimidated by an independent woman who brings home a lot of bacon. Check out these tips for dating professionally prominent women.

Profile Makeover: Miss January

Mon, 28 Jan 08 11:11:15 -0800

Feeling frustrated by the lack of response from your matches? Maybe your profile could use a makeover. Every month, our experts will help one lucky (and anonymous) eHarmony member make a better first impression. Meet "Miss January."

What your Valentine's Day Gift Says About You

Mon, 28 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Roses. A box of chocolate. A stuffed animal. Does your Valentine's Day present imply that you don't have any good gift ideas? This year, don't send the wrong message--let us help.

How to Leave your Relationship with Class

Mon, 28 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Leaving a relationship with class sometimes means summoning all of your inner strength. But trust us--take the high road and you'll thank yourself later.

Roses Again? Pick a More Fitting Valentine's Day Bouquet

Sun, 27 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

We're not complaining--getting flowers on Valentine's Day is great. But what if this year you picked a bouquet that matched with your loved one's interests and personality? Check out these alternatives to the red rose.

Are You Ambivalent About a Relationship?

Sun, 27 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Is it them or is it you? Your ambivalence towards love and relationships could be sabotaging your chances at meeting the right person. Learn how to overcome ambivalence without ignoring your instincts.

Everything I Need to Know About Love I Learned from Oldies Radio

Sat, 26 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Oldies radio provides us with the best love lessons life has to offer. Check out what you can learn from tunes of yore, then add your favorite one to our list.

Master the Art of Conversation

Thu, 24 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

We spend our days talking to one another, but would you call yourself a good communicator? Mastering the art of conversation is something anyone can do, and it's guaranteed to make your dates ten times better.

Birth Order and your Relationship

Wed, 23 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Itï¿½s something that we have absolutely no control over yet it influences how we interact with other people for the rest of our lives: birth order. See what patterns you are carrying from childhood and how it affects your dating life.

20 Movies that Make Men Cry

Tue, 22 Jan 08 00:01:03 -0800

So maybe he didn’t shed a tear during Steel Magnolias or Beaches, but that doesn’t mean he’s hard-hearted. We have a list of tearjerkers will have even the most macho man reaching for his hankie.

Why are we Fools for Love?

Tue, 22 Jan 08 00:01:02 -0800

Why is that that when we fall in love we tend to act the fool? (If you've been there then you know exactly what we're talking about.) Science says it has very little to do with your heart and almost everything to do with your brain.

How to Get Out of the Dreaded Friend Zone!

Tue, 22 Jan 08 00:00:46 -0800

Admit it. You've got a crush. Unsure if the object of your crush returns your affections? Feel like your heart is on hold? Find out how to move forward and out of that dreaded Friend Zone for good.

Flirting: How to Get the Girl Without Playing Games

Tue, 22 Jan 08 00:00:45 -0800

Okay guys, listen up. Want to improve your overall game in 2008? Success is easier than you think—and you don’t have to be a player to score a girl’s digits. But you do need to master the fine art of the initial approach, a.k.a. first-impression flirting.

5 Engaging Ways to Propose

Tue, 15 Jan 08 08:00:58 -0800

Whether you're ready to take the next step or are waiting for the right time or person, here are five creative and inspirational ways to propose to your potential better half.

Sticking to your Weight Loss Goals

Tue, 15 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Losing weight ranks number one on the list of New Year's resolutions, yet so many people fail year after year. Check out our tips for shedding those extra pounds and keeping them off for good.

New Feature: RelyID

Mon, 14 Jan 08 00:01:03 -0800

Looking to jump start the communication process with your matches? eHarmony is proud to introduce RelyID, a new premium service that gives you the opportunity to maximize your communication opportunities.

Keep Your New Year's Resolutions (by Changing Them Completely)

Mon, 14 Jan 08 00:01:02 -0800

Getting down because you're not keeping to the resolutions you made on January 1st? Making promises isn't the answer; rethinking your goals and how you reach them is.

I'm an Angry Person

Sun, 13 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

I am a very angry person. I find that in my daily activities I experience a chronic anger towards the world. Even when I am at peace and content it only takes a small inconvenience or frustration to send me spiraling down into hours of anger.

Making the Love in Your Life Better

Sat, 12 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Creating powerful, loving relationships often translates to a richer, fuller life. Tapping into what makes people special can strengthen your existing relationships and make it easier to create new ones.

These Readers Need Your Advice!

Fri, 11 Jan 08 00:03:04 -0800

These readers need advice. Your words can steer them toward the right match! Help a fellow eHarmony Advice member get one step closer to finding love.

What eHarmony Women Want

Wed, 09 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Guys, are you confused about what women expect from you? We've studied thousands of responses from women detailing their needs and wants. We have everything you need to know.

Dumped? 10 Love Songs that Will Make you Sob

Tue, 08 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Your friends may not understand your broken heart, but there's a love song out there that does, so hit play and cry it out. Then tell us the song that makes your eyes well up with tears.

The Power of Positive Thinking

Mon, 07 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Altering your inner dialogue can have a tremendous impact on your professional, dating and personal life. Being your own cheerleader is easier than you think, and will take you places you never thought you'd go.

The Importance of Giving Thanks

Sun, 06 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Do you feel like your life is the pits? Well, it turns out that naming our blessings may be a simple way to live a happier life. What are you waiting for? Start giving thanks now.

A Relationship Requires More Than Just Love

Fri, 04 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

All you need is love, right? Well, not exactly. Love is a great start, but it's how we deal with life's ups and downs that really determines if a relationship is meant to be.

The Dos and Don'ts of Dating

Thu, 03 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

These days, finding someone to date isn't nearly as difficult as mastering the art of online dating. Wondering what the rules are? Check out our dos and don'ts here.

Your Part in the eHarmony Process

Tue, 01 Jan 08 00:01:01 -0800

Your mate is out there. We know it. The eHarmony process needs your enthusiasm, open mindedness and effort. Learn how to get the most from your eHarmony experience.

Top 5 Hot Singles Winter Getaways

Mon, 31 Dec 07 00:01:02 -0800

'Tis the season to celebrate being single! While your married with children friends are stuck at home trying to figure out how to assemble their kids' Christmas presents, you are footloose and fancy free to get away from it all. Whether warmer climates beckon, an adventure on the high seas sparks your interest, or you simply want to slip away for a few days, there's definitely a destination for you.

Staying Young at Heart

Sun, 30 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

The truth is, it's not how many candles are on the cake that makes us feel old. It's in our approach to life and our passion (or lack thereof) for living that affects whether we feel vibrantly alive or prematurely Medicare-eligible. And so in an effort to fully embrace our savvy single lives in 2008, here are the top five tips for staying young at heart.

Do Long-Distance Relationships Last?

Sat, 29 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but is that conducive to a long-distance relationship? Research suggests that people in long-distance relationships tend to build up their partners in their mind, which can spell problems once the distance gap is closed.

The Guide to Scoring Second Dates

Fri, 28 Dec 07 15:12:45 -0800

Probably the only thing more nerve-wracking than a first date is wondering whether there's going to be a second. If you're known as the one-date wonder, our simple tips will transform you into a first date pro.

How Far Should I Go For Long Distance Love?

Fri, 28 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

My question is regarding long distance relationships. How much time should you spend with someone "in person" before deciding to relocate? We are very attracted to each other and feel we are compatible, but how do you relocate across the country for a "maybe"?

The Single Most Important Dimension for Making a Relationship Work

Thu, 27 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

You’re probably aware that eHarmony bases much of our matching choices for you on 29 Dimensions of Compatibility. But what does that mean? And is there any one dimension that is more important than the rest?

How to Get a Big, Fabulous Life in 2008

Wed, 26 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Happy 2008! And welcome to the new year, also known as The Year of You. That's right. This is your year to live a big, fabulous life. Don't wait another second to get the life you know you deserve.

Closing Your Matches - What Does "Other" Mean?

Mon, 24 Dec 07 12:01:01 -0800

You've just been closed by a match, and their reason is "other". What does that mean, and why is it an option? Wouldn't it be better to give matches the opportunity to write whatever they want?

Reality Show Relationships

Sun, 23 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Reality television shows about romance really seems to strike a chord with audiences, but do these shows have anything to do with love? Are all couples that appear on-camera together doomed? Here's the reality of reality TV romance.

He's Dating Around. Should I Date Him?

Thu, 20 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Is it foolish for me to continue dating a man who is still seeing another woman? He has been completely honest about his involvement with both of us. We have only dated a few months but I am ready to date him exclusively.

Learning to Love Yourself

Wed, 19 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Before you can share your love with someone else, you have to first love yourself. But what does that mean and how do you get there? Try these exercises and see how how easy it is to be your own best friend.

Inside the Mind of the Single Guy

Tue, 18 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Ladies, listen up. If you're having trouble in the dating trenches -- whether it's meeting a guy, attracting the right kind of guy, or maintaining a guy's interest -- this may just be the article for you

Posting Better Photos

Sun, 16 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

You know the saying: a picture is worth a thousand words. Learn how to put your best face forward and your opportunity for success will increase.

Meeting in the Middle -- Music and Your First Roadtrip

Sat, 15 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

If you're about to spend a few hours in the car with the person you've just started dating, you may be in for a surprise when he or she turns on the tunes. He likes Punk, you like Country. What to do? Check out these music middle grounds.

What You Can Learn From Your Ex

Fri, 14 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Once you get past the pain of the break-up, there's a lot to learn from your ex. What you can't stand and what you must have in a relationship is just the beginning. The real lessons to cherish are those that can help you grow into a better mate.

The eHarmony First Date Checklist

Thu, 13 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

First dates can be so nerve-wracking, sometimes we wonder if it's worth it to take a chance on someone new. If you are on the fence, take our survey to answer the question: to date or not to date?

Do Opposites Attract?

Wed, 12 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Is your soul mate supposed to be someone who’s entirely different from you? Yes and no. Find out if you are meant to be or on opposite sides of the spectrum.

The Holidays: Her Family or His?

Tue, 11 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Families and holidays - they can make for an explosive combination in any relationship. Discover the best strategy to staying sane during the most wonderful time of the year.

Honing Your Communication Skills

Sat, 08 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

People with excellent communication skills are more likely to succeed in life and in love. Learn why effective communicators have an advantage and what you can do to get it.

The eHarmony Non-Gift Gift Guide

Fri, 07 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

As if the holidays weren't stressful enough, choosing the right gift for that someone special can really present a problem. How much is enough? How much is too much? Opting for a non-traditional gift will impress everyone from your significant other to friends and family.

Brand New Feature: My Friends

Thu, 06 Dec 07 11:10:42 -0800

Now you can take your participation in the eHarmony Advice community to a whole new level. Our newest feature, My Friends, allows you to connect with other users directly and create stronger personal connections.

Sleep Hygiene: Four Principles for Sleeping Better than You Ever Have

Thu, 06 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Tossing and turning your way through the night can be incredibly frustrating, but getting a good night's sleep is as easy as developing a few healthy habits. Even champion snoozers can learn a thing or two about getting the most out of sleep.

What's your Dating IQ?

Wed, 05 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

People with Relational Competence are better at creating and maintaining social relationships, giving them an upper hand in the world of dating. Learn what makes a person great at interacting with others and where you stand on the socialization scale.

P.S. I Love You Sweepstakes

Wed, 05 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Who doesn't love a romantic getaway? That's why we are sending one lucky member and a friend to discover Ireland, the backdrop for the upcoming comedy P.S. I Love You, starring Hilary Swank and Gerard Butler. Simply post a comment with eHarmony Advice (it's free!) and you'll be entered to win the trip of a lifetime.

I Can't Take Rejection

Tue, 04 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Dear Dr. Warren, My worst fear is being rejected by a female and when I do try to talk to the person that I like, my words come out all wrong. People say that a first impression is the most important thing but with me, that is not entirely true.

Smothering - Can You Love Too Much?

Mon, 03 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

Some people think that love comes in the form of frequent phone calls, text messages and joined-at-the-hip partnership. This isn't love, it's smothering. Explore the fine line between caring and stifling.

When You're the Heartbreaker

Sun, 02 Dec 07 00:01:01 -0800

No matter how you look at it, breaking up is never easy. If you happen to be the heartbreaker, you can make it easier on your soon-to-be-ex by adhering to a few simple rules.

Give the Gift of Love!

Fri, 30 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

eHarmony electronic gift certificates are now available for the holidays! Select from a variety of plan options--from one month up to one year--and send them to your loved ones instantly.

The Web: New Networking Sites that Matter

Thu, 29 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

With the constant flow of new online services and ideas it’s hard to know what will be around tomorrow, and easy to feel overwhelmed. The best judge of which new sites deserve your attention is simply: Will this site make my life easier or better?

Staying Positive in the Winter Months

Wed, 28 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

It’s not always easy to remain a “glass-half-full” kind of person during the winter months. The days get shorter and darker, the weather gets colder, and by necessity most of us have to spend a lot more time inside.

But you don’t have to fall prey to the Winter Blues. In fact, you can look at this time of year as an opportunity...

Dealing with the Winter Blues

Wed, 28 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

The days get shorter and darker, the weather gets colder, and, by necessity, most of us spend a lot more time inside. But you don’t have to fall prey to the Winter Blues.

Why Do Women All Seem to Want Taller Men?

Tue, 27 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

If you look at the couples around you, you find that most men are taller than their women. This isn’t just a coincidence, nor it is it as simple as taller is better, although the research does show some preference for taller men. What’s interesting is how women use height in gauging their attraction for men.

I Don't Like His Friends!

Mon, 26 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

I’ve met a wonderful man, but I quite simply cannot stand his friends. He is in his late 30s, and these friends have been in his life a long time. It seems that he has changed quite a bit from the “old days,” but they are still beer-drinking, rowdy, party people. The kind of friends I don’t want in my life.

Overcoming Shyness

Sat, 24 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

Shyness can be emotionally paralyzing, especially when it comes to dating. Learning to combat shyness is as easy as participating in a few exercises that will get you out of your shell and into the game.

Holiday Weight Gain: Your Survival Guide

Tue, 20 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

It's that time of the year again: the holidays. With fattening foods in abundance, putting on a few pounds is all but guaranteed. Or is it? Check out our tips to keep weight gain at bay this season.

Love's Veil: Turning a Blind Eye to Temptation

Mon, 19 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

A true commitment means resisting temptation, even when it seems to be lurking everywhere. Evidence suggests that the more in tune you are with your partner, the less likely you are to give that hottie a second glance.

How do I Stop Comparing Dates to my Ex?

Sun, 18 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

Dear Dr. Warren,

I dated a wonderful woman for three years. We had deep-rooted compatibility, great sex, and what felt like real love between us. Since we broke up, I've met some great women on eHarmony, but I can't stop comparing them to my old love.

Is it Time to Break Up?

Sat, 17 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

Should you stay or should you go? If you are on the fence about whether or not your relationship is working, consider the top three reasons why couples decide to split.

Singles Guide to Surviving the Holidays

Fri, 16 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

The holiday season seems to underscore your single status. This year, make it a point not the let the couple-heavy parties and probing questions get to you. You can enjoy the holidays solo, and we'll show you how.

Nov. 14: Guest Dr. Galen Buckwalter

Thu, 15 Nov 07 17:28:38 -0800

Our first ever Live Chat focused on the science behind eHarmony's matching model.

Open Communication Timing

Wed, 14 Nov 07 13:15:48 -0800

Dear eHarmony,
I am now in the Open Communication stage with some of my matches. It has been about one week since I have communicated and I havenï¿½t heard anything from my matches since then. How long does it take, on average for matches to respond while in Open Communication? How long should I wait for the response before closing communication?
Sincerely,
Jackie in New York City

New Feature: Getting Your Communication on the FastTrack

Wed, 14 Nov 07 00:00:01 -0800

How do you like to communicate? Direct and Immediate? Slow and Easy? Our NEW Preferred Communication Feature lets everyone know your communication style.

The Cheatsheet – 5 New Fall TV Shows that Make the Grade

Tue, 13 Nov 07 00:00:07 -0800

Every year the broadcast and cable companies throw lots of TV spaghetti at the walls to see what will stick. Most of it’s awful, but we found five shows that actually make the grade.

5 Quick, Healthy Meal Recipes

Mon, 12 Nov 07 00:00:10 -0800

Trying to eat healthier without sacrificing flavor? Try any one of this simple recipes to help keep your diet on track and your taste buds satisfied.

Sex and Your Drive to Stay Alive

Sun, 11 Nov 07 00:00:03 -0800

We've all heard that there seems to be a bump in birth rates about nine months after a disaster. Do people react to danger by having more sex? Find out how recent research is separating fact from fiction on this hot topic.

Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?

Sat, 10 Nov 07 00:00:50 -0800

Dear Dr. Warren,

As I date and search for a relationship partner I’m confronted with a recurring problem-- opposite sex friendships. What is your belief about opposite sex friendship when a person is married or dating someone?

Your Relationship NEEDS Conflict

Fri, 09 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

Conflict is a part of a normal, healthy relationship, but only if something good comes of it. Learn how conflict can actually help your relationship and how to manage your differences effectively.

5 Bad Habits that Tank First Dates

Tue, 06 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

If you find yourself tanking first dates too often, then try to avoid these habits that can derail the first-date train before it even gets going.

Pop Culture IQ - 3 Things to Discuss Tonight

Mon, 05 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0800

Give your Popular Culture IQ a boost. With each edition we’ll bring you three ideas – discussion points – that revolve around our cultural zeitgeist. It’s an easy way to catch up with the public discourse and just maybe these light-hearted topics can kick off a little first date chatter. Today we tackle Sitcoms, Arena Concerts and Ping Pong!

10 Ways to Stick to a Workout Plan

Sun, 04 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0700

Whatever your reason for getting serious about exercise—to lose weight, sleep better, boost your energy, or just be healthier—the key is consistency.

Dating, Divorce, and Your Kids

Sat, 03 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0700

New research looks at single parent dating and what children need to thrive during this important time.

How do I stop getting too attached to my matches too soon?

Fri, 02 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, I am trying to be very open to the eHarmony process. But am struggling with not taking things too seriously and getting too attached to matches too quickly. Can you help?

Open Mouth, Insert Foot: The Dos and Don'ts of Fighting Fair

Thu, 01 Nov 07 00:01:01 -0700

Name calling. Accusations. Past fights. In the heat of the moment, couples say a lot of things they later regret. Discover the best way to protect your relationship from real damage.

The All New eHarmony Advice and Community - HAVE YOUR SAY!

Wed, 31 Oct 07 00:01:01 -0700

Dating can be tough. That's why we've created a new way for you to get the answers and support you need - 24/7. Expert advice, a forum to ask questions and share insights with others, and a resource for better relationships - it's now all just a click away!

Introducing the Mini Personality Profile

Fri, 19 Oct 07 20:35:49 -0700

Ever wanted to use our matching model to gauge your compatibility with people who aren't on eHarmony? Now you can! With our quick, mini personality profile you can compare yourself to anyone - FREE!

Busyness: The Modern Disease

Fri, 19 Oct 07 20:33:10 -0700

We juggle. We struggle to keep up. We rarely slow down. It's the modern disease. But we've got the antidote - it will help you find love and help you start loving your life.

Revealing Deep Dark Secrets

Fri, 19 Oct 07 20:32:34 -0700

There's no question about it - sharing a dark secret with the new person in your life can be daunting. Get your personal roadmap to navigating this thorny topic so you emerge smelling like a rose.

In Good Times and in Bad

Fri, 19 Oct 07 20:31:58 -0700

Everyone knows it's important to support your partner during tough times. But a recent eHarmony Labs study showed that sharing in a partner's triumphs may be even more powerful!

How long should I wait for chemistry?

Fri, 19 Oct 07 20:30:05 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, I recently went out with an eHarmony match. I could go on and on listing his great traits, but I never felt a sense of chemistry. Will that come later?

Are you the Success Story of the Year 2007?

Fri, 19 Oct 07 20:29:13 -0700

Have you met someone special on eHarmony? Do you think you've found The One? You could be our lucky Success Story of the Year!

eHarmony Etiquette

Mon, 08 Oct 07 19:10:47 -0700

Whenever a new technology appears, a new sort of etiquette must grow up around it. It can be difficult to navigate the unwritten rules so we've created a guide to some of your most common questions.

Guidelines For Kissing Frogs

Mon, 08 Oct 07 19:02:39 -0700

Susan Page in her book, "If I'm So Great Why Am I Still Single?" reviews a great strategy for "test driving" your dates. Find out which "make and model" is right for you.

Is There One Perfect Person for Me?

Mon, 08 Oct 07 18:37:15 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, Do you think everyone has a "soul mate" out there somewhere? Is there just one person who is ideally suited for me?

3 Steps For Better Verbal Intimacy

Mon, 08 Oct 07 18:30:42 -0700

A relationship can start without real verbal intimacy but it will never truly flourish. Learn the 3 best ways to enhance communication tonight.

Your Checklist For Dating Success

Mon, 08 Oct 07 18:20:24 -0700

There are 5 key tips every dater needs to remember as they search for the right person. These reminders make for the perfect checklist, whether you've been dating for many months or just met someone that you really like.

Online Dating 101: Guided Communication

Mon, 01 Oct 07 08:00:07 -0700

From reading and assessing a match’s profile to sending and answering the questions that are important to you, each step of the Guided Communication process is designed to help you evaluate whether you would like to continue getting to know your match in a safe and anonymous environment.

Your Profile Photo Is Worth a Thousand Words

Thu, 20 Sep 07 18:24:23 -0700

Does posting photos help your chances of success on eHarmony? Get the answer to this critical question plus some tips for putting your best face forward.

Picking Apart the Pick-Up Artist

Thu, 20 Sep 07 18:19:19 -0700

We know, we know. Pick-up artists preach some dating tactics that are all wrong. But other tips just happen to be dead-on and effective. Find out how to separate the bad from the good and improve your game tonight.

How to Fan the Flames of Desire

Thu, 20 Sep 07 18:18:32 -0700

Researchers are trying to uncover why sexual satisfaction waxes and wanes in relationships. Explore the findings of one recent study and uncover the best ways to keep a relationship hot for the long run.

How do I tell someone nicely that I'm not interested?

Thu, 20 Sep 07 18:15:04 -0700

I'm new to eHarmony and have gone on two dates with a woman. She is great but not right for me. What's the best way to handle the situation?

Bad Match or Just a Rough Patch?

Thu, 20 Sep 07 18:13:34 -0700

When arguments get more frequent, one question will inevitably surface: are we wrong for each other? Learn simple ways to differentiate between a bad match and a rough patch.

Undoing the Hollywood Relationship Hoax

Thu, 20 Sep 07 18:05:44 -0700

Admit it. We are bombarded by popular media and on some level, it affects us all. It can even shape how we approach relationships. Learn why you may need to rethink some of these ingrained lessons about love.

Exclusive Video: Behind the Scenes at eHarmony

Thu, 20 Sep 07 16:54:25 -0700

Go behind the scenes on the set of our brand new television commercials. Don't miss this uncensored look at real eHarmony success couples like you've never seen them before!

Learning to Trust Again

Thu, 20 Sep 07 16:37:19 -0700

We've all been there. You click with someone, get involved and the relationship seemed to be headed in the right direction--only to ultimately fall apart. Find out the best ways to pick yourself up, get out there and take a risk with your heart again.

Breaking the Gender Stereotype

Tue, 21 Aug 07 14:20:48 -0700

New gender research has shaken up the world of sexual stereotypes. It's time to reexamine all those traditional ideas and see what science has uncovered. The old view that "men want sex more than women" may be headed for the dust bin of history. See for yourself.

What I'm Learning From Single Parents

Tue, 21 Aug 07 14:14:57 -0700

eHarmony Parenting contributor Hal Edward Runkel looks at the challenge of single parenting and what their strength can teach us all.

Who Makes the First Call?

Mon, 20 Aug 07 20:25:54 -0700

It's time for the first phone call with a new match, and maybe you're both playing "First Phone Call Chicken." Each waiting, debating and hoping the other makes the first move. Who should make the first call, and why should they make it?

Clean Up Your Act

Mon, 20 Aug 07 20:19:04 -0700

Newsflash! Guys, we have important news. 1) Having a dirty living space may be a potential turnoff to women. 2) With a few tricks of the trade keeping it clean can be a snap. We bring you the inside knowledge needed to have a welcoming space without breaking your back.

I am Terrible at First Dates!

Mon, 20 Aug 07 20:07:43 -0700

Dr. Warren: I am terrible at first dates! My nerves usually get the best of me. I just can't be myself. I feel like I either am too quiet or say the wrong things. How will I ever end up with someone special if I keep blowing it on the first date?

Great Outdoor Dates

Mon, 20 Aug 07 19:53:56 -0700

September is the perfect time to take advantage of the great outdoors. We serve up several date ideas that will help you and your date get back to nature and enjoy the waning days of summer.

Jaded? Rediscover the Excitement of Dating

Mon, 20 Aug 07 19:22:41 -0700

Are you starting to feel a little burned-out from your online dating efforts? Whether you're getting more matches than you can handle or less than you expected, the process can take its toll. We explore the causes behind this common letdown and offer some suggestions for putting the spark back in your mouse.

Married to the Job

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:56 -0700

Are you coming in second place to your partner’s profession? Has the workplace invaded your relationship space? Here’s how to get your partner to "unplug" and tune more into you.

Are You Settling?

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:54 -0700

Involved in an unfulfilling, fair-weather relationship or dating situation, but are afraid to face the unknown to set foot into potentially greener pastures? Find out what you may be missing.

Emotional Health: What It Is and How to Get It

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:51 -0700

Enjoying the most fulfilling relationships with friends, family and romantic partners is a matter of becoming as emotionally healthy as you can. Tap into these 3 markers for emotional health to make your relationships and self-worth soar.

Love Stinks

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:49 -0700

What does smell have to do with love? Everything! For starters, it tells us that the way to a man's heart isn't through his stomach, it's through his nose.

Defusing the Passive-Aggressive

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:27 -0700

It can be frustrating dealing with passive-aggressive behavior, but you’ll find that a few moments spent defusing the situation go a long way in improving the quality of your relationship.

The Parent Trap: Dating, Your Kids and Feeling Guilty

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:22 -0700

We sat down with noted parenting consultant and eHarmony Parenting contributor Dr. Tina Payne Bryson to discuss strategies to help single parents successfully navigate getting back into the dating world.

20 Must-See Spy Movies

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:13 -0700

From old-school "007" to the explosive digital movies of 2007, action and adventure movies have kept us on the edge of our seats, contemplating the critical missions of international spies and fates of nations. Here are 20 must-see spy movies.

Why Aren't We Exclusive?

Wed, 01 Aug 07 00:00:07 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, I’ve gotten to know a very nice man through eHarmony, but after a few dates he informed me that we were not exclusive to each other. When should a relationship become exclusive? I'm ready to meet the love of my life!

Overcoming Procrastination

Thu, 05 Jul 07 08:00:54 -0700

Do you find yourself routinely putting off tasks, some of which you would really like to accomplish but for whatever reason seem to never be in the mood to do them? You are not alone.

Harnessing Your Wild Side

Thu, 05 Jul 07 08:00:53 -0700

When chemistry is off the charts with a new partner, it pays to play your advances slower than your instincts may be telling you. The entire longevity of the relationship could be at stake.

Helping a Partner Through Grief

Thu, 05 Jul 07 08:00:37 -0700

The loss of a friend, family member or loved one can be overwhelming for anyone, but by being part of a strong support system you can play an important role in his or her healing process.

The Perfect First Date

Thu, 05 Jul 07 08:00:34 -0700

Your heart races. Beads of sweat form on your brow. All the classic symptoms of fear and anxiety are there. But did you know that nerves can actually be your best friend on a date?

20 Must-See Romance Movies

Thu, 05 Jul 07 08:00:27 -0700

Romance movies capture our hearts and have prompt laughter and tears over endearing characters. Here are 20 must-see movies from the past 90 years of love on the silver screen.

Appearance and Self-Acceptance

Thu, 05 Jul 07 08:00:21 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, I consider myself a healthy, attractive woman, but I am also on the heavier side. I assume that a lot of men may be turned off when they see that I do not have a perfect figure. What do you suggest I do?

Dating on the Cheap

Thu, 05 Jul 07 08:00:20 -0700

We all want to wine and dine the women in our lives, but unless a guy is an entertainment lawyer or the heir to a seafood empire, not every date can be caviar and lobster. Here are five great cheap date ideas that don't seem cheap, and will make both your date's and your accountant's hearts soar.

The Cheatsheet – 5 Websites You Don’t Want to Miss

Tue, 03 Jul 07 11:39:00 -0700

Online Dating 101: Profile

Mon, 04 Jun 07 08:00:50 -0700

Whether you're looking to find a great date, relationship or simply get to know different people and see where it goes, here are the tools, tips and knowledge you need.

Love at Work

Sun, 03 Jun 07 12:32:48 -0700

New love is exciting wherever it sparks, but when it’s three cubicles down and comes with the added taboo of keeping it under wraps, it can feel utterly irresistible. And yet, when it comes to finding love at work, things can get tricky beyond the obvious, "What if this doesn’t work out?" Get the scoop.

Checking in With You

Sun, 03 Jun 07 08:00:59 -0700

With so much focus directed toward keeping your relationship’s spark alive, you may have forgotten one important key to happiness and satisfaction: You.

Music and Romance

Sun, 03 Jun 07 08:00:19 -0700

Across many cultures and geographies, music plays a large part in both courtship and social unity. What is it about music that melts hearts and brings people together to celebrate?

Getting Back in the Game

Sat, 02 Jun 07 12:40:07 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, My relationship ended six months ago and I feel like I’m ready to date now, but I'm surprised to find myself a little nervous about "getting back in the game" ...

First-Date Fashion for Men

Fri, 01 Jun 07 17:19:04 -0700

It’s your first date and you want to everything to be perfect. You’ve picked out the right place to go and have decided which flowers to pick up on the way over. You’ve had your hair cut last week and now it’s time to decide what to wear. The key to dressing fashionably is to take you and tweak it a bit to maximize your style.

What Your Stories Reveal About You

Fri, 01 Jun 07 08:00:51 -0700

What do the stories you tell others say about you? Get the details on how you may be revealing your greatest strengths and personal challenges in what you say.

Am I Doing Something Wrong?

Fri, 01 Jun 07 08:00:47 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, I have been with eHarmony for 6-7 months and have been trying to meet someone with either little or no success. Although I consider myself to be a nice guy, it feels like I am doing something wrong...

Fact or Myth: Is Chocolate an Aphrodisiac?

Sun, 29 Apr 07 19:51:32 -0700

It's been said that the way to most women's hearts is through a heart-shaped box of chocolates, but is it because chocolate is an aphrodisiac?

Smooth Moving in 3 Steps

Sun, 29 Apr 07 19:46:23 -0700

Six months into a bad move-in with your significant other and even the best of intentions will feel like the worst of decisions. Follow these simple steps to avoid a move-in disaster.

When Friends Get Jealous

Sun, 29 Apr 07 19:41:20 -0700

It’s a sad day when good friends start acting strangely toward you when you’ve found new love. You two have been friends for as long as you can remember—what is going on?

It's Not Easy Being Green

Sun, 29 Apr 07 19:34:07 -0700

Dear Dr. Warren, I’ve never had a problem meeting women and going out on dates, but after about a month or two, I find myself becoming jealous of other guys, and it only gets worse from there...

Even Wallflowers Bloom

Sun, 29 Apr 07 19:30:57 -0700

Do you find it hard to reject someone's advances without becoming uncomfortable or feeling "passive-aggressive"? Learn how to say "Thanks, but no, thanks" nicely.

Liar, Liar—Is It Ever Okay?

Sun, 29 Apr 07 19:17:12 -0700

Fib. Half-truth. Fable. Fabrication. Prevarication. Figment. Inexactitude. Disinformation. Fiction. Truth evasion. No matter how you say it, a lie is a lie—but is it ever okay in a relationship?

Fighting the Good Fight

Sun, 29 Apr 07 19:07:19 -0700

In the heat of an argument it’s easy to succumb to fighting dirty to "win," especially when you might feel you’re not being heard, but you could be damaging your relationship. By learning how to fight fairly, conflict can become a tool for deepening the bonds you share.

Behind the Picture

Sun, 29 Apr 07 13:24:36 -0700

Some people love hamming it up in front of the camera and sharing their snapshots with others. They get a kick out of sharing aspects of themselves freely. For others, though, the very thought of putting themselves out there can be an experience marked by insecurity and vulnerability...

Between the Pickup Lines

Fri, 20 Apr 07 13:24:23 -0700

With more than 75% of face-to-face communication based on body language alone, what you say isn’t as important as how you say it. By tuning in to the body language of others—as well as your own—you will know whether to keep the conversation going or cut your losses and move on.

The Deal Breakers

Tue, 17 Apr 07 17:57:41 -0700

Whether she can’t get along with other women, hates your friends, or redefines "ultra-high maintenance," every man’s got his list of deal breakers. When that switch is flipped, the relationship peaks, and the end feels near. Do you exit gracefully or wait and see?

Good E-mail but No Spark

Sun, 15 Apr 07 17:56:48 -0700

Q. For a little over a month I e-mailed back and forth with a match whose pictures looked great and the e-mails evoked really deep feelings—it was surprising. But then we met...

3 Keys to What You Want

Fri, 06 Apr 07 17:58:25 -0700

Whether your goal is to fall in love, shape up your unhealthy habits or be more social, there are three key steps that help ensure success. Are you ready to get what you want?

What's in a Voice?

Fri, 06 Apr 07 17:55:49 -0700

No matter how good someone may look, attraction may end when they open their mouth—and not for the reasons you might think.

What "All-or-Nothing" says about you

Fri, 06 Apr 07 13:26:25 -0700

Chronic dissatisfaction may say more about you than your relationship.

The Cheatsheet - 5 New Musical Artists That Matter

Thu, 29 Mar 07 14:48:45 -0700

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking today’s music is second rate. There’s a great deal of important music being made today, and whatever you were into years ago there’s a good chance that one of today’s artists is carrying on with the same theme.

Is History Doomed to Repeat?

Thu, 15 Mar 07 17:42:49 -0700

Q. My last relationship ended 6 months ago and I’m ready to head back in to the dating world, but . . .

Healthy First-Date Nerves--or Much More?

Tue, 13 Mar 07 11:38:54 -0700

When do first-date nerves pass into the realm of unhealthy anxiety?

Inside the Mind of a Serial Dater

Tue, 13 Mar 07 11:37:58 -0700

Things get serious and he starts to drag his feet. He tells you he doesn't know what he wants, and that it’s him and not you. Is he a serial dater?

Longer Lives Through Relationships

Thu, 15 Feb 07 17:33:40 -0800

Ask yourself two questions and start enjoying a healthier, happier life right now.

Top 10 Must Haves and Can’t Stands

Thu, 15 Feb 07 17:29:39 -0800

It’s easy to convince yourself that Mr. or Ms. Right Now comes with enough of what you’re seeking at the time, but it’s not enough.

Who Makes the First Move?

Mon, 15 Jan 07 17:27:47 -0800

Q. As a woman I feel a little strange about making the first move . . .

Are Opposites the Law of Attraction?

Mon, 15 Jan 07 17:24:52 -0800

Do opposites attract? This popular question is posed in movies, TV, music and by most singles on the dating scene. But what does science say?

Online Dating 101: Photos

Mon, 01 Jan 07 08:00:34 -0800

You don't need to have the skills of a famous fashion photographer, but for best results you should do more than point and click. Follow these eHarmony Photo Guidelines to put your best face forward.

King of First Date

Fri, 15 Dec 06 17:21:58 -0800

Q. I go on lots of first dates and the women seem to be having fun, but when I call for a second date, they disappear...

All In the Hands . . . Or Is It?

Fri, 15 Dec 06 17:17:10 -0800

You can’t always count on the size, shape and lines of your hands to tell you about your personality and more about who you are. So what can they tell you?

Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide

Fri, 15 Dec 06 17:05:47 -0800

Long-distance relationships can make you want to kick the shins of the one who said, "Distance makes the heart grow fonder." Give yourself a break from plaguing doubts and fears and read this.

Just Like a Brother

Wed, 15 Nov 06 17:00:29 -0800

Q. I’m always the "great guy" who remind women of their "brother." Am I sending off the wrong signals?

Hot and Cold

Wed, 15 Nov 06 16:58:20 -0800

Is the object of your affection blowing hot and cold? Here's what to do.

The Real World

Sun, 15 Oct 06 16:52:00 -0700

Q. I appreciate the compatibility matching process, but I don’t just want to send e-mail all day. I want to meet people!...

Meet the Parents

Sun, 15 Oct 06 16:46:42 -0700

Don’t fret if your close friends and family disapprove of your relationship—keep a cool head and keep these three things in mind...

Relationships a Laughing Matter?

Sun, 15 Oct 06 16:45:01 -0700

Did you know that the best way to a man's heart is through his ear? Discover the differences in the ways men and women think about humor.

I'm not a Handsome Man— Help!

Fri, 15 Sep 06 16:38:59 -0700

The "Ex" Files: Get Over Your Baggage

Fri, 15 Sep 06 16:33:25 -0700

No one goes through life unscathed by baggage, but the good news is that you can welcome a new perspective into your life.

Love on TV

Fri, 15 Sep 06 16:32:47 -0700

Incompatibilities may be entertaining on TV, but they are not as funny when you’re going through them in real life.

Debunking the "2-Day Rule"

Fri, 15 Sep 06 16:15:55 -0700

Taking time between communications may seem like a good thing to do, but applying outdated etiquette might actually make you seem more romantically inept than socially adept.

What Anniversaries Really Mean

Tue, 15 Aug 06 17:36:58 -0700

With all of the expectations men and women have about anniversaries, there’s no wonder that they can be a source of frustration and anxiety.

Science of Extraversion

Tue, 15 Aug 06 16:00:25 -0700

The word "extravert" evokes images of extremely talkative people, but this trait alone does not paint a complete picture of a person’s social style.