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“someone only posts one picture...and it's a picture of 2 or more people, and they don't say which one is them? I don't get why someone would do that.” – Andrea8823

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“I rather fear with this thread that we are in danger of overlooking the fact that men do fall in love with women that they start off "just" having sex with. It is not always so but it does happen ... ” – jayjay

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“Much of the writing about pre-marital sex vs. abstinence is written for teenagers and young adults - those faced with protecting or giving up their virginity. What about for older folks who are not ... ” – LookinUp

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“You mean I shouldn't lead with the tongue? ” – jayjay

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“Noooooooo!! Really? Well, I hope that the real her lives up to the imagined her, and that she is imagining nice things about you as well. Which is the imagined part?” – jayjay

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“What's an 'effective single'? One who isn't single? If all the traits that make one an 'effective single' are geared toward successfully getting into a relationship that would seem to be the case.” – jayjay

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“ Not if I've just had a shower and washed away most of my natural fragrance. ” – jayjay

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“You answered your own question. You said it in youor thread. She's in school, she has 3 children and she works, she deffiently has her hands full. She's trying to better herself for her children ... ” – View

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